Belonging to a different church from your parents?
Does anyone here belong to a church not pastored by their parents? How did your parents react to the news?
I live in the same house as my parents but attend a different church...my parents are just glad I go to church, and they knew I wasn't happy at their church, but I get plenty of funny looks when I tell people that I DON'T go to my parents' church.
I was interested to see how common it is, since many of us are expected to help our parents build their ministry...
I would say that while I lived at home I did go to my parent's church. I would think that if your parents are ok with it-it shouldn't be a problem and how fortunate you are to have parents that are allowing that.
I would also say that I don't know if I have really come across this that much in all my years of Christian service. I have heard of several instances where the wife wouldn't even attend her husband's (pastor) church. Thought that always strange.
I would also say that I do go to a church where the pastor's son is away from God and that his attendance is sparodic.
Just my observations...it's interesting to think about....!
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my father says he didn't care.. But he was very mean towards me until I gave in and went back. But due to yesterday's events I won't return. He can be as mean as he wants, I just don't even care anymore
When I lived in their home, I went to their church and continued in their denomination in other states until . . . well . . . I wised up.
How did they feel about it. Well, after I was well into my 40s, both Father and Mother wrote letters in an attempt to get me kicked out. I did get kicked out, but not because of their letters; it was because I told the pastor that I would not go along with their unbiblical rules anymore.
I guess that after the letters, neither Father nor Mother cared. Perhaps they were relieved. I don't know.
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My dad is a military chaplain and preaches at the more traditional service, but I attend the contemporary service and help with the praise team (drums and guitar as needed). He is happy that I am helping out and doesn't mind me not coming to his service.
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