Originally Posted by CoachR64 Works both ways. Men sleep around with a bunch of girls, and he gets labeled cool and a studly by the world. A woman does it and she gets labeled all kinds of nasty insults.
true, can't argue about the stereotypes there.
there's another flip to it. guy doesn't sleep around must equal being gay but a girl that doesn't sleep around is a "good girl".
i found the best way to deal with guys tho that say that. when they call you "gay" go up to them and put your arm around them, nod your head, "what's up big boy?" yeea they don't like that, and they never say it again. i made a guy jump 10 feet backwards he learnt his lesson. never said it again to me.
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The bottom line is that this exists simply because women are different from men, and anyone denying this (feminism) is naive and fooling themselves. Just have fun with it. When a woman gives me a compliment, i sometimes say how she just sees me as a piece of meat, a lust object, to reverse the stereotype. It's pretty funny.
i found the best way to deal with guys tho that say that. when they call you "gay" go up to them and put your arm around them, nod your head, "what's up big boy?" yeea they don't like that, and they never say it again. i made a guy jump 10 feet backwards he learnt his lesson. never said it again to me.
One guy who likes to joke around called me gay. I asked how he could know this. He said that someone told him, at which I asked, "Who, your boyfriend?" And he didn't have a wise response to that.
It may sound like "fun" to guys who don't have to experience stuff like that, but it's really not. If you ever had to experience those "playful" comments or touches from a woman you found physically repulsive, or with a bad personality, you would think a lot differently about it.
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One guy who likes to joke around called me gay. I asked how he could know this. He said that someone told him, at which I asked, "Who, your boyfriend?" And he didn't have a wise response to that.
hahahahaha nice comeback
__________________ “I've eaten things that didn't complain this much.”-Denis Leary
"Once you realize what a joke everything is, being the Comedian is the only thing that makes sense."-Edward Blake-The Comedian in The Watchmen
he learnt his lesson. never said it again to me. 
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