| The Life Stages Hangout (18 and older only) A general hang out for anyone....This group was especially made in the life stages area to facilitate the needs of those moving thru life stages by out growing different life stage groups. Here they can still be connected and maintain close relationships with members in those groups they need to leave or they out grow. |
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2nd July 2009, 03:52 PM
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Reps: 19,721,477,955 (power: 19,721,482) | | | I have had two major crushes on guys younger in the last 3 years.one is 10 years younger,the other 12 years younger.if circumstances (not age) were different....I'd snag them right up.
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29th August 2009, 03:18 PM
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Reps: 129,671,716,430,205,744 (power: 129,671,716,430,213) | | | All the time. And vice versa. I'm trying to get away from that though. More like 5-7yrs above or below. |
30th August 2009, 06:52 PM
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18th November 2009, 12:03 AM
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24th November 2009, 10:00 PM
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Reps: 103,644,116,902,950,112 (power: 103,644,116,902,955) | | | Um....I saw New Moon this weekend and I have to say......felt like a raunchy ol' cougar.
Seriously though, I've been married forever and no, other than running with werewolves, I've not been attracted to anyone else in a long time.
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18th December 2009, 12:05 PM
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Reps: 2,463,965,628,428,525 (power: 2,463,965,628,435) | | | Well, I was all ready and set to answer this question - but then someone threw the monkey wrench into it and said "Well, I meant would you want a relationship with them"
...and that changes the question (IMHO).
I've seen plenty of women that are quite a bit younger than me that I think are attractive. I'm pushing 40 - and I can think of quite a few women I've seen that are probably in their early to mid 20's that I think are very attractive on the "looks" side.
That's how I was going to answer it at first - but would I want a RELATIONSHIP with them (if I were single)? Probably not....and in some cases definitely not.
Heck - my wife is 6 years younger than me...and even in those 6 years of difference I can notice certain areas where our common ground isn't there. Like - I'll be talking about music - or the early days of MTV - and jokingly ask "Remember when..." - and ya know - no. She doesn't "remember when". She doesn't remember when Thriller came out. She's barely old enough to remember Reagan in office. Carter left office when she was 4. I was graduating HS when she was in 6th grade. There are lots of areas where I have nostalgic things about life that she didn't experience.
...and that's only 6 years.
Like let's say I was dating a 20 year old (to make it pretty extreme) - what the heck would I really have in common with her? There would be HUGE gaps in common experience - and those are things that I really value in any relationship. Most likely I'd end up finding myself falling into more of a paternal type role - rather than a spousal.
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1st February 2010, 12:25 PM
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Reps: 10 (power: 0) | | | Well, I worked with a girl once that was 15 years my junior, but I didn't really notice that there was such a large age gap when I was around her. I got the impression she might have been interested in me. I really liked her personality, so I guess I probably would have been willing to have a relationship with her if I didn't actually stop to think about things. The age gap was just too big though. It wouldn't have lasted long, and I'd probably have felt like a lecherous old man. |
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Hi all, I know that this may sound like a very odd question but I was just wondering about this topic. I ask this because I find this guy on the "big screen" very attractive (eye candy) who is much younger than I (10 years younger). I have never thought a guy that much younger was attractive. My mother, who is not a Christian, said (when we talked long ago) that she thought Johnny Depp was beyond hot. Anyway, I was just curious if there was anyone here who finds someone younger attractive? If so how many years younger are they from you? 
