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Old 2nd July 2009, 02:52 PM
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I have had two major crushes on guys younger in the last 3 years.one is 10 years younger,the other 12 years younger.if circumstances (not age) were different....I'd snag them right up.
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Old 29th August 2009, 02:18 PM
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All the time. And vice versa. I'm trying to get away from that though. More like 5-7yrs above or below.
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Old 30th August 2009, 05:52 PM
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I've dated a few that were much younger, and a few that were older, and it was more the circumstances that was the problem, not the age difference.
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Yeah thank God I'm not single anymore. Personally most of my peers (opposite sex) aren't attractive to me.
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Um....I saw New Moon this weekend and I have to say......felt like a raunchy ol' cougar.

Seriously though, I've been married forever and no, other than running with werewolves, I've not been attracted to anyone else in a long time.
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Well, I was all ready and set to answer this question - but then someone threw the monkey wrench into it and said "Well, I meant would you want a relationship with them"

...and that changes the question (IMHO).

I've seen plenty of women that are quite a bit younger than me that I think are attractive. I'm pushing 40 - and I can think of quite a few women I've seen that are probably in their early to mid 20's that I think are very attractive on the "looks" side.

That's how I was going to answer it at first - but would I want a RELATIONSHIP with them (if I were single)? Probably not....and in some cases definitely not.

Heck - my wife is 6 years younger than me...and even in those 6 years of difference I can notice certain areas where our common ground isn't there. Like - I'll be talking about music - or the early days of MTV - and jokingly ask "Remember when..." - and ya know - no. She doesn't "remember when". She doesn't remember when Thriller came out. She's barely old enough to remember Reagan in office. Carter left office when she was 4. I was graduating HS when she was in 6th grade. There are lots of areas where I have nostalgic things about life that she didn't experience.

...and that's only 6 years.

Like let's say I was dating a 20 year old (to make it pretty extreme) - what the heck would I really have in common with her? There would be HUGE gaps in common experience - and those are things that I really value in any relationship. Most likely I'd end up finding myself falling into more of a paternal type role - rather than a spousal.
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Well, I worked with a girl once that was 15 years my junior, but I didn't really notice that there was such a large age gap when I was around her. I got the impression she might have been interested in me. I really liked her personality, so I guess I probably would have been willing to have a relationship with her if I didn't actually stop to think about things. The age gap was just too big though. It wouldn't have lasted long, and I'd probably have felt like a lecherous old man.
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Hi all, I know that this may sound like a very odd question but I was just wondering about this topic. I ask this because I find this guy on the "big screen" very attractive (eye candy) who is much younger than I (10 years younger). I have never thought a guy that much younger was attractive. My mother, who is not a Christian, said (when we talked long ago) that she thought Johnny Depp was beyond hot. Anyway, I was just curious if there was anyone here who finds someone younger attractive? If so how many years younger are they from you?
When I told a friend of mine about this they told me not to worry, it is just a simple attraction aka "eye candy", no big deal, it is when it comes to lust that is when it is a big deal. I can assure you that I do NOT lust after this guy.
God bless ya
I've had so many crushes throughout my life... I don't even know.
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cool dude!!
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Hi all, I know that this may sound like a very odd question but I was just wondering about this topic. I ask this because I find this guy on the "big screen" very attractive (eye candy) who is much younger than I (10 years younger). I have never thought a guy that much younger was attractive. My mother, who is not a Christian, said (when we talked long ago) that she thought Johnny Depp was beyond hot. Anyway, I was just curious if there was anyone here who finds someone younger attractive? If so how many years younger are they from you?
When I told a friend of mine about this they told me not to worry, it is just a simple attraction aka "eye candy", no big deal, it is when it comes to lust that is when it is a big deal. I can assure you that I do NOT lust after this guy.
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Definitely. One of my best friends is about 14 years younger than me and I think she's hotter'n a two dollar pistol. I reckon she thinks I'm a goofy old man. eheh
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