Emotional Healing Needed!!!!!!!

Precious0317 · #1 23rd June 2008, 05:39 AM

Hi, I just ask that u pray for me gain strength, comfort, and healing because I found out that my exfiance was cheating with his ex and I just found out friday, the pain hurt so much and sometimes I wish I could just ripe my heart out. I believe that if I lean on God, He will heal me but it's so difficult to let go the anger as well. I just want to call (or answer the phone b/c he call every 2 seconds) and tell him about himself and sometimes I do. I just started my media fast tonight (I'm not sure how long) but I'm fasting for emotional healing, control, strength, spiritual freedom, and all the other good stuff. So please just really keep me in ur prayers. Thank u sooooo much... I love u guys..

oneofthem · #2 23rd June 2008, 05:54 AM

Hi Precious.

Goodness, you poor thing! I have been through a similar thing, and i am in a support group for wives.

Do your best to hold on to God in this storm, and make sure you reach out to friends and family you trust. For us girls, talking about things is often the way we process them.

The healing may take awhile, and it may come in layers. The grief may come in waves, just keep taking it to God and the people He's put in your world.

If you need your ex to not contact you, be clear with him about that. If he has any respect for your need, he will give you that space.

Know that God is the perfect Lover. He loves you more than you could comprehend. He is faithful and He is true to His word.

Dear Lord, i pray for my sister precious...i pray that you would affirm her worth according to your truth and your love, i pray that you would comfort her and minister to the wounds inflicted by this situation. I pray that you would give her the courage and strength to hold onto you, and to reach out to the right people in her world. I pray that you would put people around her who understand what she is going through, and who can walk this journey with us. I also pray that you would give her a real sense of you walking with her, carrying her, loving her, being strong for her, having compassion for her, and identifying with her because you are our Great High Priest who sympathises with our weaknesses and you have experienced deep betrayal yourself.

I pray this in Jesus name.

Amen

peacechild4 · #3 23rd June 2008, 11:19 AM

Hi Precious.. what a great name you have called yourself.. encourages me to pray for someone who calls themselve such a positive name!!

Only through God could we ever find the strength to get through to the other side.. but you will!!

No matter how long it takes.. you will!!

Praying for you tonight.. God knows how to make things right again.. and YES be encouraged God can turn bad to good.. I don't know how He does it.. but HE does impossible things all the time when we put everything in HIS hands and let Him take it away from us.. We just look to Him and follow His advice and follow Him!!

Praying that you know every step of the way how to go through to the other side.. and I am believing You will get there!!