What is wrong with this forum site? Anyone?

One item in your OP really gripes me as a believer. Christians have drawn a line in the sand that the Bible does not. We condemn those who engage in homosexual or bisexual practices to hell, where the Bible truly does not condemn them any more strongly than other sin. So what if, in several passages, God calls homosexual practice "an abomination?" He calls all sin an abomination! Rightly so. Your statement that those engaging in such practices cannot "be" Christians is ludicrous. Can we sin and still be Christian? Of course we can. We do! Am I condemned, without possibility of redemption, when I lie? When I curse? When I covet, lust or fail to love my neighbor? Neither are believers who engage in homosexual behavior -- and despite the many members of the body who want to deny that there are those who believe and yet so engage, they are wrong.

We're not judges, we're fruit inspectors. There is a difference between "persistent" and "willful" sin. Addictions are persistent but not necessarily willful. Persistence indicates a stronghold. Willfulness indicates rebellion. Sometimes it is hard to see in the behavior that there is a difference, but there most assuredly is one

... not all sins in the OT warrented a death penalty either. Homosexuality did...

I don't think all sins are just "equal" in their degree or level of severity; some cause much greater harm.

So did adultery, murder, and a host of other sins. Homosexual behavior is not alone in bearing that penalty.

In our plane of existence, on this Earth, that's true. But what matters for eternity is not the degree, but the fact, of sin. If there is just one sin marked in our "book of life" and we do not know Christ, we're condemned. On the other hand, those whose "book" is covered by the blood of Jesus Christ are treated at the Judgment as though sinless, without stain. The thousands of pages of sin that could have been read out loud do not exist. The pages are blank. There is no sin that is not covered, even "being gay."

I take issue with that as well, as that is a completely false testimony.
No one is or has been condemning anyone to hell in there that I have ever witnessed. And I am tired of hearing the relative boloney about what about adultery and what about this or that? First of all, there is not a subforum dedicated to adultery on this site is there? Ever wonder why not? Why is there no subforum dedicated to the sin of adultery, but yet there is one dedicated to the sin of homosexuality? Well, der I will tell you why. Because adulterers aren't running around here claiming their sin is not sin, are not claiming it is in fact not sin,
but actually a blessing from God, are also not jamming their sin down the throats of the Church and forcing them to call evil good and good-evil. Just for starters.

I am so tired of those who stay in the "safe zones" of the site condemning the ones who care enough about souls that they are in the battlefield, and accuse them of things they aren't doing because such folks have chosen to incline their ears to false testimony from others who also have not been in the battlefield either and then cast their judgments accordingly when they don't have an earthly clue what they are talking about.

Get in the trenches with us and we'll talk to you after that. And I don't mean dip a toe in, I mean get in with both feet, have your armor of God on and be ready to be hit on all sides.

That is a false gospel my brother. If we continue to willfully live lifestyles of sin, regardless of whether that is for instance, continuing to be a liar, continuing to practice witchcraft or continuing to live a sexually immoral lifestyle of any kind, we deceive ourselves if we think our names will be found in the Lamb's Book of Life. The Word explicity tells us otherwise. Do I need to show you the Scriptures?

Again, there is a marked difference in "persistence" in sin and "willfully sinning." Persistence is the stronghold, the sin we cannot seem to beat despite our desire to stop going there and repeating the sin, and the confession and repentance afterwards. Addictions, sexual behavior, etc.

Willfully sinning is not caring whether you commit the sin, refusing to acknowledge the sin is in fact sin, refusing to allow Christ to heal. Though many who practice homosexual behavior mouth words similar to this, their guilt, anger and depression speak volumes about their conviction that this is the case. They want to change, but they can't. Willful sin is not a stronghold, it is outright rebellion, and a rebellious spirit does not know God. Strongholds, however, are something every Christian has or has had, to greater or lesser degrees.

No sin is unforgivable, including homosexual behavior. The only sin unforgivable is rejecting Christ. Christians sin inadvertently, they sin with knowledge of their sin, they sin from living in a stronghold. Sometimes they even sin rebelliously. None of these things separates us from God's love, forgiveness and most importantly, from His salvation. Willful sin, however, speaks directly to the state of the heart, most likely saying "This person is not saved." It is difficult to tell the difference among these sinful motivations at times, and that's why it isn't up to us to determine what that motivation is, but is left in the hands of Christ.