
2nd October 2007, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by saraharms1 It seems like he's replacing his old habit with a new one. Kinda like how a smoker switches from cigs to gum, although that change is a good one what your boyfriend has done isn't. I used to be into drugs and alcohol myself. I popped pills. I was told what I did was worse than meth. I've been clean for a few months now. If I hadn't had one slip up I'd be nearing a year but thats in the past. My parents are both alcoholics and drug addicts to. I decided to stop cuz I didn't want to be like them.
I saw someone suggested Alanon. Its really a great program. I went to Ala-teen. It helped a lot. Helped me realize I wasn't alone and that none of this was my fault.
What your boyfriend needs is your love and support right now. Don't support what he does just support him. Be there to hold his hand. He's not going to get help until he thinks he needs it. If he's causing you too much emotional stress right now then maybe you two should seperate for a while but stay friends so you can be there for him. Once he's completly clean of both those pills and alcohol then go back to him!
Thats just advice from a 15 year old kid. Take it or leave it.
Sarah
Great advice. You are a wise teenager.
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