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29th July 2007, 11:02 PM
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Reps: 9,378 (power: 14) | | Originally Posted by GrannieAnnie Thank you Goldenrod....I have been crying all the time about Charlie, and now Bruce has a little sneeze sometimes....from what I've read on the internet about the condition, it could take weeks or months before he dies, but I don't want him to suffer and as soon as I see him starting to suffer I'll take him to the vet. Actually my husband said he'd take him there. But I've been loving them and playing with them today. Sometimes he sneezes more than others....I'll see what enquiries I can make at a vet who I know deals with rodants and maybe they can help. When I love a creature, I love it 200%. I won't kill spiders...I relocate them...I only kill flies, mosquitoes and cockroaches and I know feral mice that come into the house have to be killed...but generally I hate killing any creature. Even little bugs or worms I'll put somewhere safe in the garden. I'm too much of a softy. I think I can be harder about people than animals.
Thank you for your story about "Heart" it's lovely that you sang to him....
Smiles and hugs,
Annie *hugs* ^^ Same her! :O I'm a softy when it comes to animals as well. Spiders however.... I don't like them very much and big bugs creep me out, so I pick them up with an object. And yes, Heart was a good little bird. He's in Heaven now; healthy and strong! I also used to have a rat. I changed her name to Shasta to Shastina. I loved it when she ran around in her ball. ^^ Do you have any picture of Charlie? o.o
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31st July 2007, 07:23 PM
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Reps: 150,262,917,289,506 (power: 150,262,917,299) | | Avoidant Survey: How long have you known that you have been an Avoidant? I think I'm avoidant, some of the time... Who in your family, is an avoidant? My father, I dunno...
How many online friends do you have that you reguarally chat with? Hmm...2 or 3 at least...tops
How many PM's do you receive a day? 0, usually...some days I do recieve a few or one at least
How many emails do you receive a day or week? Spam? Junk? or People? How many online friends have burned you? 2, so far really, i think, have burned me unintentionally How many offline friends do you have? 2, I believe How many "aquaintances friends do you have? Lotza lol How many very close friends do you have (including family/spouse)? 2?
How many friends did you have when you were younger (high school)? um...I had a lot...actually
What clique did you belong to when you were (are) in high School?no cliques at my old school-everybody liked me
Did you talk to your stuffed animals alot as a kid? Yes What was/is closer to you, friends or your stuffed animals? Depends What do you avoid the most? getting hurt, or disappointed, at most Is it easier for you to make friends or lose them? hmm...good question...it depends, I think
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1st August 2007, 11:37 AM
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Reps: 31,811,005,723,496,884 (power: 31,811,005,723,503) | | Originally Posted by Goldenrod *hugs* ^^ Same her! :O I'm a softy when it comes to animals as well. Spiders however.... I don't like them very much and big bugs creep me out, so I pick them up with an object. And yes, Heart was a good little bird. He's in Heaven now; healthy and strong! I also used to have a rat. I changed her name to Shasta to Shastina. I loved it when she ran around in her ball. ^^ Do you have any picture of Charlie? o.o
Actually..."the boys"....have seemed a little better in the last couple of days, so I'm trying to be optomistic. I've had my parents staying with us the last couple of days so that's taken my mind off bad things. Yes I have a couple of pics of the babies. Charlie ate another little hole in the leg of my jeans last night....little bugger !!! :-)
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1st August 2007, 03:48 PM
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Reps: 9,378 (power: 14) | | | I would've been mad if a rat had chewed a hole through my pants! >: o But if it was my rat, then it would have been okay. ^^ I hope to own a Makah(sp?) one day. They're so cute. :3
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9th August 2007, 10:58 PM
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29th September 2007, 12:27 AM
|  | Turn worry into wonder... 39  | | Join Date: 25th October 2006 Location: Australia
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Reps: 37,062,987,635 (power: 37,062,998) | | | Avoidant Survey: How long have you known that you have been an Avoidant? I'd say all of my life. Can't remember ever feeling like I was ever not shy. Who in your family, is an avoidant? my mother was and youngest son
How many online friends do you have that you reguarally chat with? 1 or 2 How many PM's do you receive a day?That depends. Not many. Sometimes 0
How many emails do you receive a day or week? Not many. Always the same few people though How many online friends have burned you? Don't think I've had that experience How many offline friends do you have? 2 really close friends that I speak to regularly then a handful who would possibly fall into the next bracket How many "aquaintances friends do you have? handful How many very close friends do you have (including family/spouse)? 3 or 4 including my husband How many friends did you have when you were younger (high school)? maybe about 6 What clique did you belong to when you were (are) in high School?the one that was not in the 'in' crowd Did you talk to your stuffed animals alot as a kid? Yes What was/is closer to you, friends or your stuffed animals? Friends What do you avoid the most? Anything that involves socialising especially with people I don't know or not very well Is it easier for you to make friends or lose them? From my experience it is easier to lose the friends
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2nd October 2007, 12:09 AM
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Reps: 7,251 (power: 16) | | | Well... i'm a little weird i guess... lol... I avoid anything uncomfortable... but i'm very outgoing and very look at me... i have tons of "friends"... but only 2 that i really talk to about "stuff"... i have no problem being the center of attention... as long as nothing's going wrong... but it's all very surface... they don't get anything deeper... i got them reinforced non-penetrating steel walls ... if only *I* know I've done something wrong... I start avoiding everybody... or if i just feel uncomfortable.. i'm very closed down and secretive about EVERYTHING which drives EVERYBODY nuts... my closest friends/family half the time feel like i'm putting them on a shelf... and they don't know how to deal with me... (although I have gotten much better with God's help this last few months)
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2nd October 2007, 12:20 AM
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Reps: 7,251 (power: 16) | | | Avoidant Survey: How long have you known that you have been an Avoidant? About a year... never stopped to think about it... Who in your family, is an avoidant? My real parents How many online friends do you have that you reguarally chat with? 0 - don't usually get online much How many PM's do you receive a day?0 How many emails do you receive a day or week? ummm... 1 this week lol..usually none How many online friends have burned you? none... don't let em How many offline friends do you have? 2 close ones... and about a million surface friends How many "aquaintances friends do you have? tons How many very close friends do you have (including family/spouse)? 3 including adopted mom How many friends did you have when you were younger (high school)? real... always about 2-3 real one (but i still never shared anything).. but a million surface friends What clique did you belong to when you were (are) in high School? i was totally "in" lol... i loved life and seemed not to be afraid to do anything Did you talk to your stuffed animals alot as a kid? Yes What was/is closer to you, friends or your stuffed animals? Friends What do you avoid the most? Sharing anything that will make people "know" me... Everyone thinks I'm a "perfect angel"... can't let em think otherwise ... not allowed to show them that i hurt or that i have fears or that i'm not perfect... don't like pity... and if they know... they tend to make it last longer... I'm the "strong" one lol... Is it easier for you to make friends or lose them? both are equal... i lose about as quick as i make em... just b/c the relationships aren't grounded... they're just fly by's
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16th October 2007, 07:02 PM
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16th October 2007, 07:08 PM
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