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6th July 2007, 09:58 AM
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Reps: 9,207,852,266,470,080 (power: 9,207,852,266,478) | | Originally Posted by dollface82  called his Mum - apparently he doesn't have a new phone yet, she hasn't heard from him.
they speak all the time.
so maybe the story was true? 1st the advice you got, was to trust him and not to call and give him time. Originally Posted by dollface82 Turns out his story was true. The female he was talking too is married, was a corporate adviser.
Now, I'm worried that I've ruined my relationship with him - shows I don't trust him?
But the situation was so dodgy! It seems like you are blowing it, because you don't trust him, at all and you're not giving him the space he needs. Sorry, but your making it all worse on your own and if you don't relax and give him space, you're not going to have to worry about a bf anymore. Sorry, if I sound mean......but, you need to relax. 
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6th July 2007, 04:22 PM
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Reps: 4,720,750,020,857,624,576 (power: 4,720,750,020,857,665) | | | like PassionateOne said - relax. I dunno how you handled the situation with your bf but you may need to apologize for overreacting and you need to choose to trust him, if you can't do that then there really isn't a lot of foundation to rest the relationship on.
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8th July 2007, 09:24 AM
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Reps: 2,789 (power: 12) | | | You need to ask him who the girl he was with is, and if you have anything to worry about. If he says "no, you don't have anything to worry about", he is being honest with you. Then you need to calmly explain to him that you expect him to confide in you before others about issues because you are his girlfriend.
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8th July 2007, 11:36 AM
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Reps: 30,894 (power: 40) | | Originally Posted by dollface82 Turns out his story was true. The female he was talking too is married, was a corporate adviser.
Now, I'm worried that I've ruined my relationship with him - shows I don't trust him?
But the situation was so dodgy!
def. give him space. I understand where you were coming from at the beginning (getting worried). Just give him the space he needs and apologize. Things will blow over in time.
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