God is here for you Troy. He will get you through this. Your daughter needs you! Don't give up just yet! God is there with you! He loves you and you don't know what He has in store for you.
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Father God, I stand in agreement that You are still on the throne, and ask if it is in thy Will that this marriage be restored that You WILL put it back together again, In Jesus Name, Amen
Dear Sweet Brother Troy,
commere and let me give you a cyber warmfuzzy ... and alot of prayers and blessings!
my name is dee. i'm a survivor of a broken marriage, a survivor of a very serious suicide attempt, and a survivor of a parent who succeeded in taking his life. all very traumatic. these subjects are imprinted on my heart. the Lord has given me many blessings out of these heart breaks. i'd like to bear your burdens with you. my heart is very big for you during this time. my first thoughts are for you in the mist of your broken marriage. the bonds of love are so tight around our hearts that the breaking of these bonds hurts so very deep and overwelms us with it's grief. the healing process is alot like the loss of one's life. when you grieve someone's life, or grieve a relationship, your heart needs time and tenderness to process all the feelings and changes. bless you dear brother. the healing process always starts with the pain of the exsperiance. and during your personal process of this grief, you will re-visit pain, regrett, guilt, resolution, confusion... but each part of these things searches for Christ and answers. in the mist of all of these things is healing. it's all a process that life throws at us. manage these things the best you can. lean on Christ's promises of Salvation, (salvation is the greatest healing above all), and continue to reach out to your brothers and sisters in Christ.
as a mom (and grandma), i can assure you that your daughter is 'choosing' her mom because being a young lady is important for her... to be with her mom and this other man has nothing to do with how much she loves and needs you. our children take turns with their parents. it's part of their growth process. she must need her mom right now. ofcourse she stills needs you though. during these times of parental attatchment, the child is very aware of the other parent. children, even adult children stay attatched to both of their parents. needs change. she needs you. her needs will constantly be changing in her personal growth process... she really needs you. scientifically the female child searches for her selfesteem in her father, and likewise the male child from his mom. but they look to the same sex to model.
i won't discribe what i did in my suicide attempt, but i will tell youi that i spent almost a month in the hospital, plus was locked up in a phyciatric ward for several more months. quite a miserable exsperiance. having your choices taken from you, the anger and hurt loved ones incure... the way people look at you. i wouldn't want to go through that again. i have been suicidal after that, but the Lord has always placed better options across my path... including the pain of whatever i'm going through.
pain is a process that sometimes we can't see through; but we can focus on what is praiseworthy in the form of hope. we hope and our brother and sister's hope with us. we are not alone. even if you haven't physical friends, you have your online friends. reach out to whatever better choice the Lord is providing for you.
about my dad in taking his own life. it took me years to understand that it wasn't my fault. i hurt so bad thinking i could have... should have... didn't do... and the hurt that i imagined he exsperianced comsumed me with so much pain. the emtional hurt devistated me.
the Lord will provide for your needs. you may not see that clearly sometimes in your healing process. that's when the word of God and your brothers and sister's can reassure you and love you. each time, each emotion, each realization will provide you with a piece of the process of healing. everything will work out. everything does for those who love the Lord.
another hug dear brother *HUG*... pm me anytime. love dee
tnk4God- I want to pray for you again, Lord Jesus, I ask the angels to be with this family and to help this woman through her fiery trial. God bring Your presence and salvation to her life and show her the way to go. amen.,
I wish I could tell you that in human ways things will be ok. I do know that God is your strength and He is there for you to lean on. When times are at their worst He is there to carry you. I have been right where you are. I had four children and was married to the man I fell in love with when I was 13. He left me 1500 miles away for my best friend. We were on vacation and he left me stranded to be with another woman. My Dad had to come and get me. I felt like my whole world was over. It seemed like that for a while. But it was durring the time that I was alone that God touched me most. I found more comfort in Him then I ever had. We are told to fully rely on Him. In a situation like this, He is all you have. You can either turn your back or you can grab hold and let Him carry you through. I don't know in a year where you will be or in 5 years. I do know that its been almost 7 years for me and I am closer to God now then I ever was. I am happily married now and even though its been a rough road, I would do it again! I will be praying for you my brother in Christ!!
Right now, try to focus on one thing at a time. Think about Jesus and what He gave, so that you could be forgiven of your sins, Troy. Picture Him in your mind, a true, and loving Savior, sent to rescue you from the evil that seeks to envelope you, and keep you from your G-d.
Jesus represents love.
Jesus represents freedom from suffering.
Jesus represents everlasting peace.
Jesus represents an eternity with those who love you and with a creator that has known you since before you took your first breath.
Taking your life is not the end of your pain. It's a lie, created by an evil being that wants you to believe that in closing your eyes forever to this life, you'll finally be free from the suffering you are currently enduring. Instead, you'll find yourself dug in deep to an eternal suffering.
I'm not going to play any games with you here. I'm not going to pacify you with temporary comfort. Instead, I'm going to reach out to you with real love and compassion, all wrapped up in TRUTH. The truth is that G-d loves you. G-d gave you life. You have no right to end the beautiful gift that G-d has given you.
On these forums you will meet many people who will understand your suffering, including me. You lost your wife to another man. I'm sorry. That's real suffering. I lost my husband, and he ain't never coming back...... until Jesus returns. Until then, he's gone. For the last 3 years I have been raising my son alone, and it's hard. I have the normal challenges of motherhood, and also the added challenge of having a disabled child. That's tough, right? It's a tough road.... but listen, I'm not even done yet.
All of last year, I suffered through cancer that ate away at me and caused me such pain that I lay in my bed begging Jesus to take me home. I spent 1/2 my days crying for release and half my days begging for healing so I wouldn't leave my son without his last parent. Jesus healed me. Praise God!
So, when somebody says to me that they are thinking of taking their own lives, I have to ask myself.... do they realize what they have? Do they understand what a gift this is? Do they KNOW how much it hurts their children, their parents, their siblings, family, and friends, when they die? Do they know the loneliness that comes after? Do they grasp that this loneliness is doubled... tripled... when the person that died, took their own life?
So here, I offer you my prayers. I offer you comfort and a listening ear. I don't offer you pity. I offer you TRUTH. Don't take your life unless your plan for your child is for them to spend the rest of their lives hurting over what you've done.
Something precious was taken from you when your wife left. Something precious was also taken from your child, when your wife left you. Don't take something else from your child by leaving forever.
15 Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him. Even so, I will defend my own ways before Him.
Father God, I lift my brother up to You. Those of us who have lived through the same thing are witness to the power of Your healing and presence. I ask that You come to him now, surround him with Your presence and love and help him to trust You, even now. I pray that You would bring to his remembrance all that You have done for him, and restore the joy of his salvation. Please give him rest, comfort and healing. Thank You LORD for Your unfailing compassion and help, in Jesus' name, amen. in Him, Leslie
__________________ ...When I fall, I will arise; When I sit in darkness, The LORD will be a light to me. Micah 7:8
I guess that this is it, my wife and daughter are leaving in 3 days, probably to live with that other man that my wife says she thinks she loves. nobody loves me anymore. I have run out of everything. If anyone can pray for a miracle, then this would be the time. I have nothing left. I am of no more use to the Lord.
If I see him this day I will be very happy, this earth is a wretched place. I have known love for the 20 years of our marriage, since I was 17 years old, but now my daughter even wants my wife to be with that other man so that she will be happy. I am so tired. and see no reason to continue.
Troy
I have prayed for you. Just remember that this man will be a hiccup in your childrens lives. No matter what, an imposter can never replace a biological mother or father. Your children will always need you . i have prayed for you.
... and alot of prayers and blessings!
Until then, he's gone. For the last 3 years I have been raising my son alone, and it's hard. I have the normal challenges of motherhood, and also the added challenge of having a disabled child. That's tough, right? It's a tough road.... but listen, I'm not even done yet. 
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