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My, my. Where there are many words, sin abounds! How true. I had your problem once, but in reverse. Then, after a life of questions, Christ found me. As His witness, let me say, this walk is a relationship--you talk and listen to God. Though you mention your Christian occupations, this is missing and can not be found in the material you're reading. In fact, it provokes confusion.
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Originally Posted by didot View Post
Indy,
My, my. Where there are many words, sin abounds! How true. I had your problem once, but in reverse. Then, after a life of questions, Christ found me. As His witness, let me say, this walk is a relationship--you talk and listen to God. Though you mention your Christian occupations, this is missing and can not be found in the material you're reading. In fact, it provokes confusion.
That's the truth! Or maybe I should say those are truths.
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Hello and thank you for your question.

You asked what do you do when you don't believe anymore?

Have some one with faith pray over you.

I will pray over you and keep you in all my prayers friend.

I am very glad you came here asking for help.

God bless you and have a wonderful day

Jesus is always with us

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Originally Posted by IndyEllis View Post
So while I may be a Christian (as in general follower of Christ), nearly all forms of Christian would label me an apostate bound for certain eternal torture..
This Christian wouldn't.
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Originally Posted by didot View Post
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My, my. Where there are many words, sin abounds! How true.
Where are you getting this specific maxim from? I searched multiple versions of the Bible and searched a couple different commentaries. I also Googled another 10 minutes trying to find the the source of your notion.

The best I could come up with was Ecclesiates 5 with the anchoring verse on "many words" being...

For the dream comes through much effort and the voice of a fool through many words. ~ Ecclesiastes 5:3
Reading it in context, this is about people who blab away on something when they don't know what they're talking about.

Ecclesiates 5 then continues with letting your word be your word.

This is not too different from what Jesus taught in Matthew 5.

"Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not break your oath, but keep the oaths you have made to the Lord.' But I tell you, Do not swear at all: either by heaven, for it is God's throne; or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one. ~ Matthew 5:33 - 37
This is indeed good stuff.

Other than this, what specifically are you referring to by the phrase "many words?"

You might need to clarify this quite a bit more. After all, the [Protestant] Bible has about 770,000 words while the Qur'an has only around 77,000.

Please clarify what you mean and cite a Biblical or other source for this idea (assuming it's not something you just kinda made up on the fly then we're back to Ecclesiates 5).

Originally Posted by didot View Post
I had your problem once, but in reverse.
I think we all have to work through similar issues.

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Then, after a life of questions, Christ found me.
Ah, predestination. Several pages ago, I wanted to see if anybody was interested in discussion. Over the centuries it seems most of the "how is one saved" discourses have centered significantly around the three big ideas of predestination, faith, and works.

I've read on the early church fathers, the Catholic catechism, Luther, Wesley, as well as number of modern authors.

If you're interested in having a discussion on predestination or these three in aggregate and helping me understand proper soteriology, that would be great.

Anyhow, I'm glad for you you believe he found you.

However, why doesn't He find most? By some estimates, around 100 billion people have lived. In context with that possible discussion on soteriology, I wonder what the eternal fates of most of those are.

What do you think?

Anyhow, you should feel very, very privileged "Christ found you" as by nearly all but the Universalists beliefs, one would think at least 70 to 90 (how knows, maybe 99) billion souls are bound for eternal torture.

Of the billions, why do you think God found you?

Originally Posted by didot View Post
As His witness, let me say, this walk is a relationship--you talk and listen to God.
And specifically how do you know, really know, that it is THE VOICE OF THE ALMIGHTY talking to you and not just a nice idea somewhere from your own conscious telling you what's really the right thing to do, your subconscious bringing something to the foreground, your own imagination simply influencing you based upon what you hope to be so?

How do you know? Seriously, I mean really know.

It just seems like a lot of people, sometimes even with best of intentions, come up with the most mumbo jumbo ideas about God and about reality when they listen to the voices in their heads.

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Though you mention your Christian occupations, this is missing and can not be found in the material you're reading. In fact, it provokes confusion.
I'm not quite clear what you mean here, but I've read the Bible through, I've read numerous books by C.S. Lewis, by Strobel, by McDowell, and on.

But yes indeed, I have read lots on science and I don't apologize at all for that.

The fact that "it provokes confusion" is a very, very interesting concept.

It sounds like you might be willing, when confronted with a variant, or even conflicting, idea, you are willing to quickly discard the "new input." I struggle with see how this can be done safely. What if I was wrong before? Rather than arrogantly thinking I "had it all figured out," I have enabled myself to take in new ideas and see what happens. Good ideas should survive just fine.

If you recall from my original pages on this post, this pursuit, this quest of mine was to find the TRUTH and I fully expected my prior theology to somehow (almost magically?) fall perfectly, or at least sufficiently closely, in line with what I would be finding. Unfortunately, not everything has been affirmed. And that's part of why I came to this site. To seek more input.

Most of the quotes I have given in this thread have been scriptural and a few here and there from church fathers over the years. On this topic, I think I go with something a bit more modern. In the 1950s, Supreme Court Justice Douglas said...

Free speech has occupied an exalted position because of the high service it has given our society. Its protection is essential to the very existence of a democracy. The airing of ideas releases pressures which otherwise might become destructive. When ideas compete in the market for acceptance, full and free discussion exposes the false, and they gain few adherents. Full and free discussion even of ideas we hate encourages the testing of our own prejudices and preconceptions.
Words, words, words.

Words are very interesting. I love words. I love the study of linguistics. In the earliest phases of my voyage of discovery, I even went down the path a while to understand the development of human languages, in part to try to reconcile with Babel. A personal favorite was John McWhorter's The Power of Babel: A Natural History of Language. I find it incredibly interesting how the evolution of words and of language over the course of human history so well parallel the genetic footprints as well as the archaeological record, each pointing to a common Out of Africa story.

I enjoy the study of language and words. Words are the means by which we share ideas.

And perhaps, at the heart of it, it is really about ideas.

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
Didot, bottom line, I'm not interested in having a faith based upon ignornance, let alone intentional ignorance. I struggle to see why anybody would.

Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding. ~ Proverbs 4:7

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Originally Posted by ineedUtoloveMe View Post
Hello and thank you for your question.

You asked what do you do when you don't believe anymore?

Have some one with faith pray over you.

I will pray over you and keep you in all my prayers friend.

I am very glad you came here asking for help.

God bless you and have a wonderful day

Jesus is always with us

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Ineed,

Thanks for stopping by.

And thanks for being nice.

And thanks for your encouragement.

I appreciate it sincerely.
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Egad, you are an interesting person who makes most interesting points.
You're quite interesting yourself my friend.

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A couple of questions popped into my head that I would like to ask you.

First, from your studies, what is the difference between a religion and a philosophy? Are there any ways they paralell each other?
Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned. ~ Anonymous; quoted in Dennett, Daniel C. (2006).
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Secondly, (and totally unrelated to the first) in your studies, has anyone come up with a challenge to Kathleen Kenyon's archaeological dig of Jericho about 50 years ago? She concluded that previous digs were inaccurate and concluded that Jericho was uninhabited at the time of the Israelite Exodus into Canaan. Her explanation of the carbon ring at a certain strata was that there had definitely been a great fire, but it was a couple of centuries earlier.
I'm familiar with it a bit.

For anyone who's interested in these(sinful?) WORDs, the following is from the Wikipedia entry on Jericho...

The Biblical account of the destruction of Jericho is found in the Book of Joshua. The Bible describes the destruction as having proceeded from the actions of Joshua, Moses' successor. The exodus is usually dated to the 13th century BC (based on Ussherian calculation) − according to interpretation of archaeological evidence from the Merneptah Stele followed by new settlements in the next century. At that time the Pharaoh of Egypt would be Ramses II. Alternatively, the exodus is dated to the 15th century BC − according to a prevailing Christian reckoning of biblical chronology, which is synchronized with several ancient calendars with astronomical observation. At that time the Pharaoh would be Thutmose III (1490-1430). Neither biblical chronology matches the popular interpretation of the archaeological evidence at Jericho.

A destruction of Jericho's walls dates archaeologically to around 1550 BC in the 16th century BC at the end of the Middle Bronze Age, by a siege or an earthquake in the context of a burn layer, called City IV destruction. Opinions differ as to whether they are the walls referred to in the Bible.
That said, on a lighter side there's this great scene in the Veggie Tales movie, Josh and the Big Wall where the peas are playing the part of the residents of Jericho and they say to the Israelites in this really cute voice, "Children of Israel, Now go away." It's really cute. My kids love this movie.

Originally Posted by OldChurchGuy View Post
While it would be nice to have more active participation, it seems a lot of people are at least reading this discussion even if they are not adding anything. I see that as a good sign that perhaps you are at least in some way helping people deepen and strengthen their faith.

As always,

OldChurchGuy
Yeah, but I think some might even be comfy with a faith resting on the foundation of intentional ignorance. I struggle seeing how anyone could knowingly, intentionally, do this. I suppose at least Veggie Tales has not to many words. And they're funny. Like the Pirates Who Don't Do Anything.

And I suppose there we can wrap it up, with a bit of Silly Songs with Larry. With Larry, in fear of losing his lips, on the couch of a Freud-like Dr. Archibald being the our bridge back between philosophy and religion. At least in a most superficial way.

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This Christian wouldn't.
Liz, You're kind and thanks for stopping by. I hope all is well with you.
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Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned. ~ Anonymous; quoted in Dennett, Daniel C. (2006).
Interesting response to the question on the difference between philosophy and religion.

Does this mean our entire discussion has been more of a philosophical discussion? It seems to me we are wrestling with a question that may never be answered, i.e. what evidence is there for the existense of God?

As for the definition of religion, for some people that definition is probably very accurate. But, I think for many people, the philosophy viewpoint is what we struggle with at least once or twice in our life.

Changing the subject (note the smooth transition ), I was in the public library and thought of you when I saw a book I read a few years ago. It is entitled, "Will the Real Jesus Please Stand Up?". It is a debate between William Lane Craig and John Crossan. Have you read it? If so, what did you think of it? If you haven't read it, see if you can find a copy. I enjoyed it simply because it was a discussion by two theologians.

Granted, there are those who would label Crossan as more of a heretic or blasphemer rather than a theologian, but I see Crossan as a theologian.

I will be out of town for a few days and the laptop given to me by my new employer allows me to see this website, but the icons for doing a response do not appear even when I move the cursor over the area where they should be. So please do not think I am ignoring you.

May your days be filled with joy.

As always,

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IndyEllis,
Read your Mithras articles, and then some more. Thinking it over, there are probably still more ancient legends or myths about people coming to life again. Hindu myhtology, for instance, has stories about about Ganesh being brought back to life; and Satyavan, husband of Savitri returning from the dead.

However, I syill think there is a difference between these stories and Jesus' resurrection. They are fairly obviously myths, with no attempt to place them in a time frame, or historical setting. They have some kind of geographical setting, sometimes, but thats all. Also, the tales are very vividly coloured with a strong bizarre element which precludes literal belief. Ganesh, for instance, is the son of Parvati, created from the dust of her body. She sets him to guard her door while she bathes. He refuses admission to her husband, Shiva, which enrages Shiva so much that he brings a lot of gods and chariots, and finally knocks off Ganesh's head. Parvati is enraged and to placate her, Shiva orders that his servants bring the head of the first creature they find. They find an elephant and bring back his head, so Ganesh is "re-born" with an elephant's head.

The significance of this story to Hindus would not be in the literal truth of this tale, but that Ganesh is faithful, helpful, (he is revered as the "remover of obstacles") intelligent (thats why he has a large head), light-footed and light-hearted (he rides a mouse) ...and so on.

Jesus' resurrection, though, is quite different. Apart from the admittedly fantastic coming to life of a dead body, the rest is so down-to-earth, so realistic. As someone said it, or remmebered it. The gospels even record the part of Mary's eyes brimming over, as she looks in to the cave, of John and Peter running to the grave, when the women say it is empty, and John running faster than Peter, but stopping, a little intimidated by death, as a young person would be, outside; while Peter, spontanous as ever, rushes in when he reaches. They see the cloths..and they wonder. And they go away.

It just seems so.... different. From the old tales, certainly.

I wonder if you get what i mean?
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