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3rd February 2007, 01:04 AM
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I thought i knew what is sex since I had sex when i was even v little....
and then had sex with ex etc...sex finally become a thing like white water to me....I feel it even does not need to be existed.
So , it comes to my mind? why God created this?besides the use for reproduction, Is it really meaning the connection with a male and female?
I have done so many deliverance of the soul ties with ex males etc.
I feel the connection between two persons can be in different ways. Does not need to be connected by sex. |
4th February 2007, 02:54 AM
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Originally Posted by restore  I thought i knew what is sex since I had sex when i was even v little....
and then had sex with ex etc...sex finally become a thing like white water to me....I feel it even does not need to be existed.
So , it comes to my mind? why God created this?besides the use for reproduction, Is it really meaning the connection with a male and female?
I have done so many deliverance of the soul ties with ex males etc.
I feel the connection between two persons can be in different ways. Does not need to be connected by sex.
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4th February 2007, 03:23 PM
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Reps: 3,359 (power: 10) | | Originally Posted by restore I thought i knew what is sex since I had sex when i was even v little....
and then had sex with ex etc...sex finally become a thing like white water to me....I feel it even does not need to be existed.
So , it comes to my mind? why God created this?besides the use for reproduction, Is it really meaning the connection with a male and female?
I have done so many deliverance of the soul ties with ex males etc.
I feel the connection between two persons can be in different ways. Does not need to be connected by sex.
You have obviously been hurt by the men in your life in the past, for which I am truly sorry, sex is supposed to be a joining together of people a close as they can be physically and emotionally. For you the physical act does not come with the emotional, I would suggest that you seek some sort of counselling or perhaps you feel you have already had enough of that. I don't know if you are married, but i pray that your husband is understanding and kind to you or if you haven't meant him yet that when you do he will be everything you need him to be.
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16th February 2007, 06:08 PM
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Reps: 823,233 (power: 831) | | | I feel for you sister. I know it can be good with the right one...but I know that it's horrible when you're being used. Seems pretty stupid and pointless, but it's not. I'll be praying for you.
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16th February 2007, 06:11 PM
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Reps: 7,948 (power: 17) | | Originally Posted by restore I thought i knew what is sex since I had sex when i was even v little....
and then had sex with ex etc...sex finally become a thing like white water to me....I feel it even does not need to be existed.
So , it comes to my mind? why God created this?besides the use for reproduction, Is it really meaning the connection with a male and female?
I have done so many deliverance of the soul ties with ex males etc.
I feel the connection between two persons can be in different ways. Does not need to be connected by sex.
Sex is a good thing if done right.
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19th February 2007, 08:46 AM
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I believe God gave me revelation on this when I got married. I beileve sex is akin to Holy Communion.
Let me explain, covenant is a very important issue in the bible. When you made a covenant there were two main elements, blood and vows.
Marriage is a covenant, you make your vows and you shed blood when you first have sex together (ok in this day and age that's not always the cae as many women's hymens have already broken, but that was the original intention) this seals the covenant. Evenry time you have sex after that you are remembering your vows and the act of sealing the covenant....when you take communion you remember the covenant God made with mankind by the blood of Jesus.
It is a sacred and holy thing specifically designed to seal the marriage vows and join man and wife together physically, emotinally but importantly spiritually.
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19th February 2007, 10:24 PM
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20th February 2007, 04:15 AM
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Reps: 24 (power: 0) | | | ^^ fair observation. However I still stand by my post. I believe this is what God originally intended when he created man and woman.
I don't think the bloodshed is a neccessary part of marriage covenant anymore, since the fall, but it was how it was created at the start. So whether a person has had sex before, been married before and spouse died or had been raped doesn't make any difference to the covenant of marriage.
In OT times covenant between people/tribes etc was common, and usually the hands were cut to bleed before they shook on it, thus 'cutting covenant' and where the shaking hands of our society today comes from to seal a deal. Literal death was not neccessary. I guess you could say the breaking of the hymen and marriage was symbolic of the old life of virginhood or being single dying and a new life as one with the husband starting.
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9th March 2007, 09:55 PM
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18th March 2007, 04:50 PM
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Reps: 13 (power: 0) | | Originally Posted by koban4max Sex is a good thing if done right.
sex is good but makinglove is so much better well im getting married in july and well when mike and i first met we did have sex but that was before i got saved now that i am saved we both made a pact not to have sex till marriage but now that i have closed that side of me i dont know if i want to open up again so many painful things have happened in relation to sex that this is the first time in my life that i feel free and now that i dont have sex i dont remember the painful stuff ive been hurt abused cheated on and molested and this behavior reminds me of it all i hope that makes sence or am i certifiably nuts | | |
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