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One of the basis' for a marriage is trust. You may know how you have been wrong in this relationship and that you are sorry and committed to restoring it, however, your wife no longer places value in your word because you have violated the trust she had in you.
Can trust be restored? Yes it is possible, but it will be more with action than words. Your actions must back up your words. It takes time to heal wounds--sometimes a long time. It usually takes counseling from someone who has expertise in this area. Like a marriage counselor. Through counseling, you can get tools that can help you rebuild the damaged areas and sometimes get insight into what made you "go wrong" and how to prevent making those mistakes again and instead build a healthy marriage.
The other and most important thing is to give this over to God and allow Him to work. There is nothing that one person can do that can "make" another person love them, or trust them again. This marriage may not work out. You can do your part, but sometimes that isnt enough... coming to that realization can be very difficult, but we know God can do what we cannot. I believe God desires what is best for us and if we turn to Him, He will provide this. This may not always be what we want or the way we want it, but His way is always the best way. You and your wife will be in my prayers.  | 
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