My wife wants divorce thinks i don't love her

I ve had a bad past with my wife, it is mostly my fault.

She doesn't want to forgive me.

She wants a divorce.

We've been separated for almost a year.

I love her the way Jesus loved the church.

She says she rather be a sinner and completely break up our marriage, because she doesn't want to be hurt again.

I've treated her wrong and made some dumb decisions in our past, but i have not commited adultrey and either has she to the best of my knowledge.

Thats why I believe there's still hope.
please pray...

Maybe if she hears it from fellow christians she 'll get the point.

God bless you all...

I don't think that giving out your wife's phone number on the internet is a wise solution to your problem. I suggest you edit it, otherwise I'm sure a mod will. You say that you have made mistakes, what have you done to try to make up for them, have you changed? Its good to hear that neither of you have committed adultery, I will keep you both in my prayers.

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Ephesians 2:8-9

"Because it is by grace that you have been saved, through faith; not by anything of your own, but by a gift from God; not by anything that you have done, so that nobody can claim the credit."

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Jilly Bean
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Have either of you considered counseling from a pastor or someone like that? It's good that you admit your wrong doings adn all that. God has the power to save marriages! Don't lose hope. Is your wife a believer?

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Adam-

One of the basis' for a marriage is trust. You may know how you have been wrong in this relationship and that you are sorry and committed to restoring it, however, your wife no longer places value in your word because you have violated the trust she had in you.

Can trust be restored? Yes it is possible, but it will be more with action than words. Your actions must back up your words. It takes time to heal wounds--sometimes a long time. It usually takes counseling from someone who has expertise in this area. Like a marriage counselor. Through counseling, you can get tools that can help you rebuild the damaged areas and sometimes get insight into what made you "go wrong" and how to prevent making those mistakes again and instead build a healthy marriage.

The other and most important thing is to give this over to God and allow Him to work. There is nothing that one person can do that can "make" another person love them, or trust them again. This marriage may not work out. You can do your part, but sometimes that isnt enough... coming to that realization can be very difficult, but we know God can do what we cannot. I believe God desires what is best for us and if we turn to Him, He will provide this. This may not always be what we want or the way we want it, but His way is always the best way. You and your wife will be in my prayers.