I'm still trying to get my life together after this last relationship.
He was an alcoholic, a liar, and abuses women. He had a
huge porn collection, and had "secret" phone conversations with girls when
he thought I wasn't listening. Whenever I suggested going to church, he called me a "bible-thumper" and laughed at me. One day, he lost his temper when I pushed to go to church, and he threw me to the floor,
choked me, and broke my lower spine. I ran - not walked, as fast as I could
from this nut.
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I feel sorry for you... its wise of you to leave him. I pray that God will heal your wounds and protect you from further hurts, in Jesus name I pray, AMEN.
I am praying for you. Its hard to escape abuse, I have been there. Know that you are not alone. God is your refuge, he will give you the strength you need.
oh my l'm sooo sorry hun l went through a bad relationship too he was abusive punched me pushed me. Everytime l asked him to go to church he laughed at me. One day l got tired of him so l slapped him across the face really hard. He said you a name. he still wants me back l will be praying for you l bet this messed up your life. Since we broke up l have been scared of guys when my boyfriend he gets mad l'm scared he might hit me . And this guy also forced to sleep with him if l didn't he would yell and swear hurt me really bad. l'm so glad l'm out of that relationship and l'm glad you left. It takes guts to do that good job hun high 5
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Learn to be a good steward. You are valuable (a child of God). We must discern between helping people and enabling them. We should be with those that celebrate us. I had a couple of simple test for my dates that went something like this...On the 1st date at some point when we were going somewhere (his car) I would change the radio station--his reaction gave me some insight to his character--if he immediately put it back on the station he had it on or turned it off--there was no second date...Learn people skills and it will help you not to "cast your pearls before swine".
Prayers for you -- it does get better.
__________________ If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
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