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Old 18th September 2006, 05:23 PM
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I don't know what to do, I need help

there is this guy name sam, he wont leave me alone, he wants to go out with me or take me to homecomin, and i have told him no, but now he is threating me. 2 weeks ago, on a friday night, i went to a football game with a few of my friends, and he was there. so i called my mom, and asked her to come and pick me up, so i walked next door to my church, and brad met me there. He started yelling at me, he slapped me, and started kickin me in my knee, when i went to the docter they said that it was broken; and if i do any more damage to it, then i will have to have surgery. Brad was still bugging and threatining me, but then last saterday night he met me at the bowling alley, nothin happened it just the fact that he knew that i was there.
then yesterday, i went over to the park yesterday, and he knew that i was there, so he went over and found me, he started yelling at me, and he pushed me into the creek and started yelling and putting my head under the water, thankfully he got scared and ran off. he left a huge cut in the side of my arm. I dont know what to do. because i cant tell my parents, there is reasons for it. there is only 2 people that knows what is goin on, and that is my 2 very best friends. because they are the one that found me at the church. I just told my parents that i fell or something. but could you please pray for me. thankyou so much



--okay, i told my parents yesterday about him. but he found out and he came over to my house and he hurt me again, and he said that they will never get him, that he is going to go somewhere that they will never think about lookin. He also said that he is going to higher somebody to watch me. and make sure that i dont do anything that he doesnt want me to do. Im getting really scared, i knew that it was just going to make things worse. Im not saying that i shouldnt not have listened to you guys. Im just saying that i got my self in a worse situation, and that i dont no what to do now

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Old 18th September 2006, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by meloniej View Post
there is this guy name sam, he wont leave me alone, he wants to go out with me or take me to homecomin, and i have told him no, but now he is threating me. 2 weeks ago, on a friday night, i went to a football game with a few of my friends, and he was there. so i called my mom, and asked her to come and pick me up, so i walked next door to my church, and brad met me there. He started yelling at me, he slapped me, and started kickin me in my knee, when i went to the docter they said that it was broken; and if i do any more damage to it, then i will have to have surgery. Brad was still bugging and threatining me, but then last saterday night he met me at the bowling alley, nothin happened it just the fact that he knew that i was there.
then yesterday, i went over to the park yesterday, and he knew that i was there, so he went over and found me, he started yelling at me, and he pushed me into the creek and started yelling and putting my head under the water, thankfully he got scared and ran off. he left a huge cut in the side of my arm. I dont know what to do. because i cant tell my parents, there is reasons for it. there is only 2 people that knows what is goin on, and that is my 2 very best friends. because they are the one that found me at the church. I just told my parents that i fell or something. but could you please pray for me. thankyou so much
Wow, I wish I was there, I just might not turn the other cheek with him, I would do to the same ten fold to show him how it feels, You best get to know people like me. I don't like that one bit, be careful he can oneday kill you.

Just think of this, He's luck right now I'm not around, end of story...

You need to put a PFA on him Call the Police and get them involved and start standing up and making people notice what he's doing to you and getting them to see him and talk to him more about it and how serious it is, the more you do this/expose him,he will have no choice but to give it up before the worse will be done until him but if you keep it to your self more and hope for the best, your asking for more and big trouble.

May God be with you and your family and your thinking and your walks through life.

Wow he's really lucky I'm not around.

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Originally Posted by meloniej View Post
there is this guy name sam, he wont leave me alone, he wants to go out with me or take me to homecomin, and i have told him no, but now he is threating me. 2 weeks ago, on a friday night, i went to a football game with a few of my friends, and he was there. so i called my mom, and asked her to come and pick me up, so i walked next door to my church, and brad met me there. He started yelling at me, he slapped me, and started kickin me in my knee, when i went to the docter they said that it was broken; and if i do any more damage to it, then i will have to have surgery. Brad was still bugging and threatining me, but then last saterday night he met me at the bowling alley, nothin happened it just the fact that he knew that i was there.
then yesterday, i went over to the park yesterday, and he knew that i was there, so he went over and found me, he started yelling at me, and he pushed me into the creek and started yelling and putting my head under the water, thankfully he got scared and ran off. he left a huge cut in the side of my arm. I dont know what to do. because i cant tell my parents, there is reasons for it. there is only 2 people that knows what is goin on, and that is my 2 very best friends. because they are the one that found me at the church. I just told my parents that i fell or something. but could you please pray for me. thankyou so much
It sounds to me like this guy is stalking you and that is against the law. DO NOT MESS WIT HIM!!! CALL THE POLICE and report him. If you have to get a restraining order. Also tell you school counselor so they are aware of the problem. Plese don't let this go on any longer as it could put you in a very dangerous situation. I know I may be scaring you a little but you need to be scared of this guy, he is not right and very unpredictable....I am praying for you....Rush
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why dont ur parents know?? This isnt a big deal what if instead of putting your hair in the water he say smashed your head on a big rock?!?!?! This isnt something to sit on. Go and talk to a teacher you trust first. They will call the police and then he will get arrested. How old is he? Is he over 18? How old are you?
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because, i just cant tell my parents, it will make things worse. trust me with this one, just please pray for me, i really need it
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because, i just cant tell my parents, it will make things worse. trust me with this one, just please pray for me, i really need it
I will pray for you Melonie. How about doing what the others recommended. Go to a school counselor or the police. I wish you would tell your parents. With abusive people they prey on you so that you are afraid to get help. That is part of the problem. He may have threatened you if you told someone.

I was stalked once and it was very scary. He even came to church and stalked me, so I told the pastor and he helped me.

Find someone you can confide in, and don't let this man or boy threaten you like this.

I'll be praying. In Christ, Tapero
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Please tell someone! This guy seems like he's really out to hurt you. Is there anyone you can tell? Can one of your friends tell someone for you? You need to be away from him. I respect your right to not tell your parents, but I am concerned that next time he might not let go of your head. You are the one that matters here, not some crazed guy or your parents - YOU need to stay safe and get the help you need.
Lord, please give her the courage to tell someone about this abuse. Please, Lord, keep her safe.
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This is a serious matter and it is illegal. I don't know what your reasons are for not telling your parents. What I do know is there are to many cases of abuse that never get reported and end tragically. I know it is hard to fathom someone acting evil enough to kill you but things like that happen everyday. There are several instances of high school girls being shot or brutally murdered by ex-boyfriends or simply by boys who are fascinated by them. I'm not trying to scare you but rather get you to see the reality of the situation. I don't know, but if your parents love you they would not want to see anything happen to you. What's being done to you is not your fault under any circumstances. You are a victim here. If you insist on not telling anyone, please don't go anywhere alone and always travel in groups. Always be aware of your surroundings. And if you need someone to talk to, you can always pm me.
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