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Old 27th February 2006, 03:08 AM
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so lets talk about what we do to recover...

I thought it might be a nice thread to talk about the things we do to recover... the little things that make us stronger...
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Old 27th February 2006, 03:14 AM
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wonderful thread sweetheart!!



reading the word of God and prayer.
fellowship.
managing our grieving with joy...
our fears with comfort...
our hurt with God's promises.
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His character:
*compassion*
the compassion of God's love
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invision His compassion:
He calls you by name.
seek His compassion:
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exstend His compassion:
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the salt and light of the earth.
when touched by the compassion of the Father;
accomplish great things.
leave the compassion of the Father;
miss great things.
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Giving some time to children that are in need helps. Big Brothers/Sisters. Helping to show that others more innocent and needy have things that you may be able to shine light on.
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Facing what has happened, realize it is NOT your fault.

Getting the anger OUT. Go yell into a pillow. Empower yourself, take a karate class. Talk about the pain.

Go to God and ask him to rid you of the fear and ask for your heart to heal.

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great posts!! reps and blessings your way
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His character:
*compassion*
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invision His compassion:
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the salt and light of the earth.
when touched by the compassion of the Father;
accomplish great things.
leave the compassion of the Father;
miss great things.
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Old 31st March 2006, 07:12 PM
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Love the suggestions.

How about talking with other CF-ers about your experience!

Praying, praying and then when you're done praying some more.

For me, I think I have forgiven. But the fear sticks with me.
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Old 31st March 2006, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by jenelis
For me, I think I have forgiven. But the fear sticks with me.
honestly, me too. we were robbed at knife point. my husband hit over head and stabbed. i was around 8 months pregnant. they didn't harm me because of it.
i am much more careful of my surroundings and have since taken many forms of self defense.

mostly i practicing giving my fear over to soothing scriptures when uncomfy thoughts appear.

my fav source of comfort across my heart is feeling like God loves me and longs to see me blessed.
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the compassion of God's love
is bigger than His wrath...
invision His compassion:
He calls you by name.
seek His compassion:
it bought you eternal life.
exstend His compassion:
we are His hands and feet;
the salt and light of the earth.
when touched by the compassion of the Father;
accomplish great things.
leave the compassion of the Father;
miss great things.
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Old 22nd April 2006, 03:17 PM
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you're a kind heart goldenviolet,thank you.
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Old 26th April 2006, 08:52 PM
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Goldenviolet-- you're a kindred sole, fellow survivor.

And Music, CollectiveSoul, is a FABULOUS healer! Excellent! Excellent! Excellent.

So... I was watching (actually sleeping) in front of the Tv just the other night and the guys brother who attacked me was on the news. I was DEAD asleep and sat straight up eyes glued to the tv. It was another one of those odd experiences.
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