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28th May 2005, 02:31 AM
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Reps: 4,963 (power: 15) | | Originally Posted by ChristianCenturion Now granted, Pagan religion is ambiguous at best. There are many variants and not a strong structure that binds them as 'one' religion. But I'm curious as to whether people see the judges ruling as moral in this matter. 
Disgusting. Perfectly disgusting.
And people wonder why I feel more and more driven to call the United States "the 4th Reich"...
So there's a problem with a child growing up with both christian and pagan influences? Alrighty, why not dump christianity then? What this judge decided would be okay for a christian cleric... but unless the US have been declared and official christian theocracy last night while I slept, no judge has a right to make such a decision.
Unless there are more specific reasons involved than just "two beliefs on one child is too much".
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28th May 2005, 02:40 AM
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Reps: 8,007,909,598 (power: 8,007,930) | | Originally Posted by tocis Disgusting. Perfectly disgusting.
And people wonder why I feel more and more driven to call the United States "the 4th Reich"...
So there's a problem with a child growing up with both christian and pagan influences? Alrighty, why not dump christianity then? What this judge decided would be okay for a christian cleric... but unless the US have been declared and official christian theocracy last night while I slept, no judge has a right to make such a decision.
Unless there are more specific reasons involved than just "two beliefs on one child is too much".
Christian cleric???
Who said the judge was even a Christian?
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28th May 2005, 05:40 AM
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Reps: 129,479,460 (power: 129,490) | | Originally Posted by ChristianCenturion Christian cleric???
Who said the judge was even a Christian?
Do you really think that the judge isn't a Christian? From context, I would guess that he is.
You seem to expect that the judge isn't a Christian of any sort. What religious affiliation do you expect him to hold?
Further, how do you justify that the ruling went against the wishes of both parents and set the religion of the school above theirs. Shouldn't he have decreed that the child be removed from the school and placed in a secular institution instead of ruling that the parents didn't have the right to raise the child in a religion that both of them sponsored?
If another judge ruled that a Christian couple sending their son to a public school wasn't allowed to discuss or witness Christianity to him, would you have the same response as you have in this case? | 
28th May 2005, 07:49 PM
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Reps: 8,007,909,598 (power: 8,007,930) | | Originally Posted by Spherical Time Do you really think that the judge isn't a Christian? From context, I would guess that he is. Originally Posted by Spherical Time You seem to expect that the judge isn't a Christian of any sort. What religious affiliation do you expect him to hold?
Actually, I don't "expect" the judge to be any religious sort. His job is to mediate and decide 'tough issues' that are brought before him/her. You will forgive me if I am not inclined to jump to a conclusion as to something that has zero evidence supporting it (i.e. some Christian conspiracy that in truth would drive the child away from that belief than to draw the child closer). I do however 'assume' that the judge and the counseling bureau know somewhat what they are doing and hope that it is the child's best interest that is the focus. Since parents don't have to pass any test and I see no 'credentials' that indicate that they are following any sort of higher standard coupled with the fact that they would rather fight and hope for a nice sum of money following a legal battle, the best interest of the child is not evident in their 'plight'. There is also the number of allegedly unbiased participants vs. a couple that clearly can't even stick to the commitment of marriage. Further, how do you justify that the ruling went against the wishes of both parents and set the religion of the school above theirs. Shouldn't he have decreed that the child be removed from the school and placed in a secular institution instead of ruling that the parents didn't have the right to raise the child in a religion that both of them sponsored?
That is another assumption. We do not know if that was the first option that was presented, but rejected by the parents. I'm not so naive as to not know that some people would rather hold 'their rights' to do something whether right or wrong above all else... even the welfare of a child and frankly, divorce is an issue of selfishness at its core. So no, I'm not inclined to go either way in thinking that the judge 'should have' done something when I don't know if something wasn't tried first at the beginning. Since it doesn't say that the judge ordered the parents to KEEP the child in that school and it is between the school and their teaching that is cited, it is assumed that the parents CHOOSE to keep the child in the Catholic school. If another judge ruled that a Christian couple sending their son to a public school wasn't allowed to discuss or witness Christianity to him, would you have the same response as you have in this case? If there were two separate parties saying the same thing about a Christian family, I would hope that the Christian family would choose what is best for the child. The fact that there is nothing presenting a case other than the 'my rights' plea, I err on the side of protection for the child. That would be so even if it was a judgment against teaching Christian beliefs and the parents had the child in... say a Jewish school (they have those, don't they?). Your question of me personally? It has never happened and I don't foresee it happening, but there is usually more than the fallacy of bifurcation available in the choices. So to answer to a degree, I can say, "No, you wouldn't see me filing a suit for money, but I may petition such a verdict if not to present a more compelling case justifying my actions".
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28th May 2005, 08:14 PM
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Reps: 27,572 (power: 41) | | Originally Posted by ChristianCenturion If there were two separate parties saying the same thing about a Christian family, I would hope that the Christian family would choose what is best for the child.
What you're failing to address, in both threads, is that neither of the concerned parties are the CHILD'S PARENTS.
In my opinion, unless what the parents are doing is causing the child CLEAR harm, it is up to the parents to decide how to raise their children, not all the concerned parties in the world.
How do you respond?
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28th May 2005, 08:18 PM
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Reps: 717 (power: 0) | | Originally Posted by Jetgirl What you're failing to address, in both threads, is that neither of the concerned parties are the CHILD'S PARENTS.
In my opinion, unless what the parents are doing is causing the child CLEAR harm, it is up to the parents to decide how to raise their children, not all the concerned parties in the world.
How do you respond?
Indeed!
I cut in because 1) I agree, and 2) it's nice to come across the occasional fellow atheist with a little elephant.
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28th May 2005, 08:32 PM
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I cut in because 1) I agree, and 2) it's nice to come across the occasional fellow atheist with a little elephant. 
1.) Thank you. I'm usually not one for the "slippery slope" argument, knowing full well it's a fallacy, but I REALLY don't want to see stuff like this get even a smidgen of a toehold.
2.) Now that there's two of us, we can have a parade! I'll bring the tickertape.
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28th May 2005, 08:39 PM
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Reps: 717 (power: 0) | | Originally Posted by Jetgirl 1.) Thank you. I'm usually not one for the "slippery slope" argument, knowing full well it's a fallacy, but I REALLY don't want to see stuff like this get even a smidgen of a toehold.
2.) Now that there's two of us, we can have a parade! I'll bring the tickertape.
Won't be much of a parade, I'm afraid. Can you play an instrument? I used to play piano, but that would be, well, awkward.
Actually, there is one more of us that I've seen. Can't remember the screen name right now.
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28th May 2005, 08:54 PM
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I hope that makes it clear enough for ya
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28th May 2005, 09:04 PM
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