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    Husband with no sex drive watches inappropriate content

    Sister, have you confronted him with this? Is he a Christian? Have you asked him what he likes sexually? What he does not like? Is there another strong christian male in his life that can talk to him openly about this struggle? I know the power of inappropriate content and masturbation that goes with...
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    Oral sex in the marragie

    Yes, I agree. God wants the husband and the wife to enjoy sex and what ever both are comfortable is ok.
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    Getting Weary

    I understand your frustration. I have been in a similar situation financially most of my married life. I have learned in the past 5 or so years, that you cannot change your sponse, God has to do that. And most of the time real change only happens when there is real brokeness. As a...
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    help me!

    Brother is the search for your answer going? Remember that the Holy Spirit that lives in us will guide us. It is hard sometimes to tell if you are where God wants you to be, but if you have that peace that comes from the Spirit then you will know that you are where you are suppose to be...
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    what do you need in order to have a good/healthy sex life?

    Communication! Talk to you spouse about your needs and desires and make sure you understand his/hers. Royce.
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    How do you get more reputation points?

    Thanks! Royce.
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    How do you get more reputation points?

    How do you increase your reputation points? Does anyone know how that works? Royce.
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    How long?

    20 years...and it keeps getting better!
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    Manual stimulation during sex?

    Personally I see it as just part of having sex. I know in our relationship, I use a lot of manual stimulation on my wife and usually bring her to her first orgasam, then many times she will have a second orgasam after I enter her. Sex would not be nearly as much fun if we did not use manual...
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    Tennessee anybody?

    I am from Dandridge (near Sevierville, which is near ....oh forget it!) Royce.
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    Re: Masturbation in marriage

    Sister, pray for him. I was just like your husband a few years back. My wife found out and confrontedm me about the issue. It lead me to a point where I had to trust God for meeting my sexual needs through my wife and nothing else. Our sexual relationship has grown beyond what I could...
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    Buying Lingerie

    Same here brother. I enjoy going with my wife to buy lingerie. I think she likes it more than I do. Royce
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    Underwear

    Well, they hold me tight where I need to be held tight, and so things don't flop around and get into bad positions. LOL....that is so funny to explain! Royce.
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    Underwear

    I'm a bikini man myself. I like the extra freedom!
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    Thanks for the many posts and private messages. There is more material out there than I ever thought! Royce
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    We have done that, but see from time to time new positions we try and wonder if there are more that we could try. Some we have tried I would have never imagined of on my own! Thanks for the post! Royce.
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    I have been to that site. It is indeed a very good site. Royce.
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    Lets stay on the subject matter at hand. Thanks Kdet for your responses. If anyone else knows of any good books, sites etc, that would be helpful, please post them here.
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    That should be Is not His on the above post.
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    Non inappropriate contentographic Sexual Position Helps?

    His there a book or a web site that shows the positions in a non-inappropriate contentographic form? If so, where is it?