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Hey everyone. I haven't posted here in quite some time. Mainly because I've been really busy. I am absolutely, totally, crazy in love with my boyfriend. We dated for about three months almost two years ago and five months ago we started dating again. We have a serious relationship and we...

I don't believe in the concept of "the one". There is always that special person whom you bond with easily and you have similar values. At that point you make the choice to love them and make it work.

Alot of people will tell you that looks don't matter, but that's only true to an extent. If the purpose behind courtship is to see whether or not you could be married to someone, how can you go into it thinking, "I really don't find this person physically appealing"? While we rarely end up...

My fiance loves candy. If I'm out and about and I see a bag of candy he likes, I grab it for him. He also likes martial arts magazines, so I'll pick one up for him if I see it.

In my opinion, when a husband or wife goes against the manner in which married couples should treat one another they have gone against their vows, their covenant. Legal marriage is merely a piece of paper so that a couple will be legally recognized in the state they live in. When couples...

You have based your life around a guy. The best relationships in life are the ones where two people are together because they want to be with each other and need each other for nothing. My relationship with my fiance is the most wonderful thing ever. Why? Because I have confidence. I don't...

Well, unfortunately the thread about telling your parents seemed like a great place to say, "don't say anything yet" because why stir up the controversy when the real issue at hand is that you need to seriously examine the situation you're in. This all ties into the fact that you are making...

It really depends on the two people involved. Obviously you are both legal, consenting adults. My boyfriend is 41 and I'm 25. When I was born he was almost a senior in high school. While I was watching My Little Pony, he was going to bars and drinking with his college buddies. But we click...

Let me just share from my own personal experience. I met a guy online and we exchanged emails back and forth for awhile before we exchanged phone numbers. We immediately "clicked" over the telephone so we would spend hours talking every night. We prayed together. We shared our struggles...

Iggster and I met here on Christian forums, but we didn't keep the relationship strictly online for very long. We talk on the phone every day and he's coming to see me for two weeks before the end of this month. I don't think we could have had a relationship limited to e-mailing or IM'ing each...

Nope. Never have, never will. I guess I was always the woman who never wanted to give the "dudes" a reason to ridicule my man.

I haven't, thus far. I'm certain at some point it will happen, as that is inevitable in any relationship. Just as I'm sure he'll reach his wits end with me one day. I can be a real pain LOL I do, however, know that this man is wonderful and is worth fighting for. I wouldn't let a fight...

Maybe He got the two of you back together to prove to you it's not meant to be. Maybe you both need to try harder. I'm not sure. I mean, what sort of issues are coming up that makes you feel a permanent split is inevitable?

My best advice is this - try not to "over-spiritualize" relationships. Me, personally, I could not be in a relationship with a man whom I did not think I would enjoy making love to if he was my husband. Sexual attraction is very important in a relationship. Lust is about being self-serving...

My dream car is the Maserati Spyder. *drools*

I own a 1994 Chrysler New Yorker. Biiiiiig car! It looks like the one in the pciture below, except mine is black.

I was just curious as to how many of the courting/engaged people on here are in a relationship your parents don't (or didn't) approve of? I have a few questions, actually: 1. If they didn't approve, what were their reasons? 2. Did they ever tell you things like, "it's your heartache", "it's...

Hmmmmm my list of qualities I don't want: 1. A man isn't a Christian. And I'm not talking about a guy who thinks he's a Christian simply because he believes in God and went to Vacation Bible School as a kid. I'm talking about a man who believes Christ is his Lord and Savior and believes the...

Awww I'm sorry your leaving. If it's any consolation, I find your posts a breath of fresh air. I pray that your time away will be well spent and you will have a renewed spirit in Him. God bless, and try not to stay away too long. :) :hug:

*pulls hair* We do not have the power within us to "save" people. In fact, I am adamantly opposed to terms such as "soul winner" and phrases such as "I went door to door handing out tracts and I saved someone". Only Jesus Christ can save those who are lost. Some of us are planters, others...