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    my husband committed adultery

    Tiz, I'm so sorry. I'm lifting you up in prayer. My husband's "affair" was supposed to be just a friendship also. It's heartbreaking to find out how far reaching every thing is. God will give you the strength to get through this. :pray:
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    Is this normal?

    I don't know if my husband is a Christian. He went to church with us only once in a while. He said he was a believer. I caught him in more lies yesterday. He's still not telling the truth. What does he have to say for himself? He has a myriad of excuses-- one day it is alcoholism...
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    my husband committed adultery

    Oh Tiz. This is heartbreaking. I am so sorry you are going through this. Personally, I would go to the pastor about this. I don't think you should leave the church because of her unless you absolutely want a new start somewhere else. However, if that's your church family stick with it...
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    my husband committed adultery

    I still feel like that sometimes. I will look at his phone and e-mail at times, but it really does me no good. I know he cleans his phone records off. I was a real pain in the butt when I first found out about the affair. I called him constantly at work (he works with her.) I'd ask...
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    Is this normal?

    His affair has affected SO many people in our lives. People that loved and trusted him because I did. My siblings are so hurt and disgusted. I've took so many deep breaths, cried some more, went to therapy, and took more deep breaths and prayed. I'm getting divorced. I will never...
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    Did you ignore the red flags?

    They have told me now that they never thought he was good enough for me but they didn't want to say anything.
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    Is this normal?

    I never thought I'd be in this spot. But, I've decided to get a divorce. I found out in January that my husband has been having an affair since 2004. He brought her to our home-- to our bed-- and had no problem sleeping in that bed with me night after night. Our 9 year old daughter was...
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    my husband committed adultery

    I just wanted to drop you a note to let you know we are in the same boat, and I'm here for you too. I found out in January my husband's been having an affair since 2004 (I don't want to thread-jack here so that's enough about me!) Anyway, our worlds have been shaken like a snow globe, and...
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    Did you ignore the red flags?

    Oh, my gosh yes! I kept putting those red flags in the back of my mind thinking that I was too paranoid and surely I was doing the right thing. I just found out my husband has been having an affair-- but I haven't felt loved by him for a very long time. My red flags I was too stupid to do...
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    What do i do, i know about my mums secret-AFFAIR!

    Dear Lord, Please be with Jenny's mom and this man. Please give them contrite hearts and help them stop hurting the people around them. I lift Jenny up to you that she may not be put in the middle of this. Amen.:crossrc:
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    Husband cheated on me

    Thank you for all of the prayers. I ask that you continue to pray. We have been to a Christian Marriage Counselor. My "husband" has lied so much. He told me it was an emotional affair. He had the chance to tell me so much. I found out from his girlfriend (he later confirmed it) they...
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    Husband cheated on me

    Please lift my family in prayer. I hurt so badly that I can't even pray. I found out my husband was having an affair. So many things he told me were lies. I don't know what I am going to do. We have two daughters under the age of 9. I'm having such a difficult time. Thank you. :help:
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    Please pray for my Disabled Son...

    Dear Lord, I lift Nonchalant's son up to you. Please mend him and prepare him for the road that lies ahead. Thank you for giving him such a caring mother. Be with her through this. Amen
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    Bad Mammogram Again

    Praying for Madison Lord. Please give her your courage and strength to wait patiently for these test results. Please give her doctors wisdom. Most of all, please let the questionable results be nothing serious. Be with your daughter Madison, Amen.
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    negative memories of a loved one

    Thank you all for the responses. Pegatha, this is exactly how I feel. I feel like I do make progress, and then something happens and it all erupts in my face again and it seems like such a long journey. I'm grateful to know that there are others who have faced this challenge. Thank you.
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    prayers in 5 words or less

    Dear Lord please help Terri :prayer:
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    Pray for the person above you.

    Dear Lord I lift up Karen and Cathy up to you. Open their hearts and minds to your perfect grace and forgiveness. May they find in da_liom an example of a heartfelt disciple for you. Give him the strength and the right words to witness to them... help these ladies really hear him, and you...
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    Pray for Terry. They are working!

    Dear Lord, I lift Terri up to you on this Maunday Thursday where we reflect on your last supper. Please give her peace and ease her suffering. I ask that you save her from this death. If it is your will to take her home, then please do it soon so that she does not suffer any longer...
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    Prayer for help

    Thank you for all of the prayers... Thank you Avidan for this one. I need that imagery of the Fire that Jesus can set in me. I need that fire to burn up the things of the past so I can move on to the future. Thank you so much. God bless you.
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    negative memories of a loved one

    I'm in so much grief and pain right now. I really need advice, prayers or support. How do you deal with negative memories a loved one leaves behind? The last few years of my father's life were not good. He said mean things, he married a spiteful wife who hated all of his children. He...