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Golf would be great in the spring/summer. But, I live in Michigan! So, for now, it's skiing, ice skating, sledding, and indoor games/sports/hobbies. ;)

Wow, nice. Thanks for sharing that my testimony on this subject has been helpful to you. :) I'm glad that I could benefit someone else's life while getting some feedback/thoughts on my own situation. Be careful, though, not to slip and sexualize your spirituality. Sometimes praying together...

Um, this is what you said: But, I'm glad to hear that you aren't still of the mindset to sleep with perspective husbands. I feel that way also, though I am human and I let my physical desire get in the way of my best intentions(w/ bf on New Year's Day). Though I do not plan to let it happen...

I absolutely do not believe that you need to (or should) have sex with someone before marrying them. Wow. I'm amazed that some of you even think that...especially you Migdala - you are a contradiction! You should probably examine this belief system before you meet Mr. Migdala #4. God may not...

Pray for God's will in your life, then go about your usual life; work, school, volunteering, hobbies - whatever your lifestyle has you doing. Don't try to make this relationship happen with this girl. If God wants her in your life, HE will place her there. She might be right, but the timing...

Well, we made it a week without kissing and decided to end our fast. Even though we were able to refrain from going "there" last night, kissing is a steep and slippery slope for us. We will have to be more diligent about our decision to wait for marriage. We may even try the fasting again, if we...

Twins15, you ask an interesting queston; "why not give up kissing too?" My boyfriend may not be thrilled about it, but we've decided to try it. We got thru this whole morning of church, cross country skiing together, and lunch alone in his apartment without kissing! Btw, we wouldn't have been...

Thanks all, for your thoughts on the matter. He and I discussed the situation after church today - that was helpful. We both agree that we can continue(if we so choose) to keep sex out of our relationship until marriage, even though we had a misstep. Staying vertical is a great idea. That was...

We met thru Match.com in Aug 2010. For him, it was love at first sight upon meeting in person. :D For me, it was love at 2nd date and first kiss. By the third date we were working on breaking dates we had lined up with other people. After 10 days he told me that I had changed his life. After...

We plan to stay together, but thanks for your thoughts on that. ;) Whether or not we'll do "it" again, can't be determined at this time(considering we tried to wait once, but didn't manage to). I'm just not sure what to think of myself (he had the self-control to wait - I was the one pushing...

My boyfriend, of four months, and I have been talking about getting married this summer and were planning to wait (for sex) for our wedding night. We even made a list of reasons to wait that I carry around with me and we revisit often. But, we've both been married before and have had sex with...

Paul says it's better to be married than to live with a lustful heart. It sounds to me like you are ready to marry, you'll figure out the rest as issues arise. I didn't marry my college boyfriend after two yrs of dating - I should have. We dated for nine yrs before we married, were married for...

Puregrl, I'm so glad to hear that it sounds like you are on a good and solid path. :) Good luck to you. Autumnleaf, you are, and have always been, the biggest idiot I've ever had the displeasure to listen to. I have always, and still do, feel so so sorry for Mrs. Autumnleaf. I pray for her...

Yes, what she said means it will be several months before she's ready to work things out. In the meantime, she's planning to "get a life". I suggest you do the same. Plan as if she's gone for good. If, in the meantime, she wants to work on things and maybe get back together, then you are in a...

It does seem that the 40's are a time for reflection and possibly change. I started reading this thread to see if I could get some insight on my ex-husbands mid-life crisis that started three yrs ago (when we were still married) and is still in full force. In the last three yrs he has cheated...

The less hair, the better - imo. Bald heads are nice too. :)