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    losing my soul

    Hi Lorie, I've been in your situation so I thought I might just share it with you... It could be different for you but maybe you can get a bit of something from it. You've been married for a long time but I think you also mentioned that you started feeling 'that something's missing' about 2...
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    If your spouse divorced you, is it a sin to remarry?

    Dear Evie, Gracefaith, Faithalone, Yitzchak, Redwing030, Searle29678, Katydid, Heartnsoul, Gwenyfur and Svt4Him, Thanks so much for all your advice n views, bros n sistas, it's just quite a relief to know what my options are. I really don't wanna sin n even though it's sad that my Hubby...
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    Who Attends Hillsong Hills

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    If your spouse divorced you, is it a sin to remarry?

    Just one quick confusing question for me...if anyone can help. If your spouse divorced you (not for infidelity reasons n he's a non-believer), can you remarry someone else from church in the church? Or should we stay single or reconcile with the spouse? Is it actually still a sin to get remarry...
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    We shouldn't try 2 christianise our spouse???

    :P Pete... Aren't we all like that especially after coming back to church (n saw all these lovely couples together)... I know what you meant...It's hard to be patient, but yeah...Let God do what He wants to do n we do what we have to do... I reckon, that's to love our spouse unconditionally...
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    We shouldn't try 2 christianise our spouse???

    I'm still learning about all these every day, little by little... I thank God for guiding me and opening my eyes as I surrender my whole life (including my problems, stress, and husband :)) to Him. I'm just sharing these with you, ladies, what I learned from my Heavenly Father (who knows just...
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    We shouldn't try 2 christianise our spouse???

    Thanks everyone... :) Looks like you all agree with me... Let's pray so that we (the wifes) will be a great representative of our God for our hubby... by conducting loving warm submissive behaviours that glorify Him and him :) so both of them will not be jealous of each other
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    We shouldn't try 2 christianise our spouse???

    My hubby's not a believer n I used to try so really hard to make him come to church and 'steer his life' into a 'better life'. After 2 years then everything became worst and our fights became more serious as I got more frustrated to 'change him' n he got more frustrated having a wife that always...
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    How can I change my attitude when my husband isn't changing his actions?

    I feel sorry for you MominTX2004, looks like you're really frustrated... All the suggestions above are great and if I can add something, I've been to a situation where hubby and I just cant discuss anything at all as we ended up in a quarrell. This's what I did: - when everything is heating...
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    Power of a Praying Wife - Week One! "The Power" and Chapter 1: "His Wife"

    Jill I'm praying for you... It's hard for us as a strong woman, but yeah, ask for His mercy... that's the only way...
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    Power of a Praying Wife - Week One! "The Power" and Chapter 1: "His Wife"

    hi girls, I had a huge fight with hubby 2 days ago and he actually said to me that he thinks he couldnt make me happy and he wants us to just get separated. we did have a lot of small fightings lately (I was really being impatient to him + PMS as well) and when he said that one part of my...
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    Power of a Praying Wife - Week One! "The Power" and Chapter 1: "His Wife"

    Hello ladies... finally I got the opportunity to join our group again. Moving house was really painful plus I had to wait to get my phone connected, anyway... :) alright... my story with the book... Gosh, that book is really a heavy one. First I read it I was going, "What? These things are...
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    Power of a Praying Wife STUDY-You're invited!

    Hello Ladies, :) it's great to read your posts this morning, I feel empowered and more optimistic about God working on my hubby. Yup, I'm joining the club... :) So, when will we start and what will be the first thing to do? Hm, didn't find the study book, will try again...
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    Separated Again

    Dear Pooh25, Hmmm...... I feel really sorry for you, things hasn't been well for you, has it? I think you've done really well though... maybe you should get separated for a while to pray and to keep the children for a bad influence, and since you're independent anyway, why don't you try to...
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    Some thoughts to share...

    Hi BKG, Hope you're doing better now. I can sense that you have become wiser and can see things in another point of view. That's really great. Don't worry, you'll never know the future, you might get her back and since now you know better, you guys will walk better too... Hang in...
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    Women initiating separation or divorce...

    Oh Guys, I just read some more of the pages... I think we shouldn't attack each other, I mean, the shurch has different denominations, right? So can we have different oppinions... We shouldn't argue like this, let's keep the peace here... Everyone got their own points and only God knows...
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    Women initiating separation or divorce...

    Sorry, forgot one thing. I feel terribly sorry fpr people who get abused by their spouse, I truely do and I know that it hurts, but yeah, maybe we shouldn't standardise of what to do to face this. Every decision that you make is entirely up to you, as Desi said God gave us the priviledge...
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    Women initiating separation or divorce...

    Hi all, I think, about the violent husband, if we already sensed it before we got married and still married him anyway, then we have to take the responsibility of the choice we made. Should have known that we could never ever change a person, only God can, and to expect your hubby to change...
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    How to 'change' ur partner's behaviours...

    Hemda, Oh WOW, I can even feel your joy, mate :) Seriously, I feel empowered by your story and know for sure that mine is next!!! Yee Ha, Our God is able... Oh yeah, got your point there where you said sometimes we just get impatient of God... Tell me about it... Praying for you and your...
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    When are you ready for marriage?

    That was so true Bliz. Great wisdom.