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  1. Q-La

    Language exchange Cantonese<-->German

    Hi there, I don't use skype but if you want to ask anything that can be answered in text you can pm me or I will check on this thread.
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    Chinese college student living with me

    I hope things have improved a little; way I see it there's not much you can do to somone's personal growth sometimes. May be your constant friendliness is just what she need to precipitate her defensiveness, over time. I want to commend you for being forgiving for any rudeness and embarrassment...
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    Chinese college student living with me

    I think just be gentle and patient with her for now is ok; sounds like she is pretty young spiritually to tell God's presence in every nation (well may be not so obvious in what sounds like a little a traumatic rejection experience back her home, for a young person). Hopefully over time she...
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    Why do you feel the need to pray?

    Don't you think 'irrefutable evidence' and 'believe' are incompatible? One will never believe when there is such evidence, one just recognize, know, cannot deny, etc.The door to believing is closed in this case.
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    Most of chinese people support terrorists

    I have seen others who said they are chinese starting only threads attacking china/chinese in political forums, I hope this is not what I am going to see here. This hatred really makes me wonder a few things about the authors.
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    Does anyone know what this song means?

    You are welcome:wave:
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    Does anyone know what this song means?

    Little conch trumpet, di di di blow, seagulls hear it spread their wings and fly; Little conch trumpet, di di di blow, 'wave flower' (the white foams that comes up) hears it and smile sweetly. Little conch trumpet, di di di blow, Every blow summoning back the ships to come home; Little conch...
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    Catholicism & Zen

    I enjoy reading zen and buddhism (basically philosophy) books as they helps to clear many thoughts and intentions. This house sweeping seems to work quite well for me like filling in the truth of the gospel once the cup is empty.
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    China

    Hi Mike, what are you studying? Looks like everyone wants to work in shanghai..
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    chinese language is controled by devil

    Most older and learned Japanese can read the chinese characters, which Japan absorbed as their kanji. Chinese scholars will also think the rest of japanese characters are derived from parts of chinese characters too (which can be explained for nearly all characters, please look up if bothered)...
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    What are you currently playing (all consoles/PC)

    PC: Unreal Tournament 2004 PSP: Hg (that sliding mercury bead)
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    Do you believe in alien life?

    Thats very interesting!
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    im losing it here, please read!

    &#65321;'ll pray for you Lu. This is difficult for you but may be you should forgive and try to love him like a good friend and see how both of you feel later.
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    I'm in Relationship Hell...Save Me!!!

    If you really mean it you will place her need foremost and not just want her forgiveness for yourself but for her own happiness. Once she's forgiven you it's up to her if she will want you back and if she's happy to be with you again it will mean something for her dad too, possibly after a...
  15. Q-La

    My wife...what a stud-muffin.

    That's sweet:D
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    On the path to divorce

    May God give you the strength and wisdom on the situation. It's a terrible feeling when the heart of your beloved wanders away but as Chrisitans at least we have the comfort to know that Christ is walking with us. Praying for you cjba.
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    I'm to demanding..........Why do I feel this way?

    I don't think you are demanding at all. Different guys feel different on talking, you just have to find out whether its about: 1) personality 2) compatibility 3) how much time he wants to spend on you - sorry if it hurts, I know what it's like. I think you can change only your 'demand' to a...
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    Prayers needed

    Strangely after much talk of parting, we are still seeing each other a lot. Sometimes I feel confused and ask how's she looking at our relationship and she will feel pressured. She's trying to be a better person to me, may be it's better from a new perspective. I'm a bit worried that I will...
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    things you want to change about yourself

    There have been many things I wanted to change and did some successfully for my gf and myself over my super long date but it's over now. If she's asking you to change a lot, chance its she's not really that into you..sorry if it hurts it just hurts me a lot to find out this after 15 yrs. Guess...
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    Time to pass the Holy Grail to the Lutheran Forum?

    I think Mary will understand if we move it to a new chapel of ours first (Corpus Christi, Trinity, etc.) for the sake of christian unity.:crossrc: