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  1. Ashlynn

    What is the Worst Book You Ever Read?

    Wow this thread is still going? Ill add another Gem, it's called Trespassing by Khan (can't remember her first name) It's it a ridiculous book.
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    How did I end up in Marriage?

    It wasn't long before I knew that I did not want to spend another day on this Earth without him, and I found that he felt the same way, and so we decided to tie ourselves to one another.
  3. Ashlynn

    How many married after 25?

    I was one month shy of 27 when I got married.
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    You have been warned.

    I didn't see anything wrong with any of them. I probably would not wear #4 if my hubby werent around.
  5. Ashlynn

    Mothers-in-Law

    My mother in law will not acknowledge my existance. Im learning to live with it.
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    Is Spanking Teenagers for Discipline Appropriate?

    I do not believe that in the Bible does it says ALL MINORS are to be spanked. It says spare the rod, spoil the child. I am almost 30 years old, but Ill be you know what if my father lifted his hand to spank me. I am still his child. A child is no longer considered to be a minor at 18, but is...
  7. Ashlynn

    The 'What's up with you?' thread

    We are getting ready to close on our first home. Im terribly excited about that. My sister in law will be spending some time with us in our new home starting in January. This just means we have to christen every room in our new house quickly! :D My husband is seriously considering...
  8. Ashlynn

    Mr. & Mrs. John Smith

    Personally, I appreciate it. I do not feel like my husband's possession. But I will mention this thread to my sis who will be doing her invites in 3 weeks. It will be interesting to see what she thinks.
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    Is abuse in marriage a bunch of nonsense?

    I am wondering the same thing.
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    What about interracial dating?

    That doesnt make much sense. I say that only because she could marry an equally white man, and her kids could still look nothing at all like her. They could have black hair and brown eyes, not that it matters. I'm supposing you mean she wanted her children, not so much to look like her in...
  11. Ashlynn

    Why did She do This?

    There's more there that is going on in that marriage than worry about a flirtation. If whatever is at the root of the problem is not dealt with, many other small things will cause equally smashing (pun intended) arguments. There's more in this marriage that needs to be dealt with. It might...
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    What about interracial dating?

    I am so sorry, and I don't even belong in this forum, but I needed to respond to this. I was first taken aback by the chocolate colored skin and afro hair bit, but this knocked me off of my chair. You would settle for that? Be very careful that what you feel you would settle for would not also...
  13. Ashlynn

    WOMEN, has your husband gone with you to the OB/GYN?

    No. No babies for us as yet, and I can handle gyn alone I think. :)
  14. Ashlynn

    Which Do You Think Is More Rude?

    I agree with this wholeheartedly. One of my sisters had an everyone is welcome- outside, early summer ceremony- buffet style reception in huge decorated tents. The other had a child free wedding/ reception. It was a catered winter evening affair. No cotton candy. I think both of their...
  15. Ashlynn

    Is Oral Sex -- Sex?

    I believe oral sex is a form of sex, but it doesnt take your virginity. Intercourse does. I was watching a show, and it's amazing how the younger generation feels about oral sex. Oral sex is simply not sex to alot of young people. It's so simple to them, like going to the store and picking...
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    Women Who Don't Marry For Love

    I have. Many of the women in my husband's family didnt have a choice, and even the ones who did- for instance his sisters- they had the choice of marrying for love, but they ultimately married who they believed would be the best match. The best provider for them and children, the, the best...
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    Older Guy Issue?

    I will be praying for you. You see how good God is? He provided you with your auntie to speak with and gave you the courage to do so. I am so happy that you are able to confide in her. God has not left you alone kawaiilo- please, don't leave Him alone. :hug:
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    changing your name

    Ive never heard of that either. I did change my name to my husband's on all of my ID and such but not the BC.
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    advice needed on premarital sex...

    http://www.christianforums.com/t2873084-prayer-work-drama.html Read this thread. This is where you could be headed if you don't watch yourself. God would never give you someone else's bf, and sex is NEVER a reason to get something you want. Why ask for advice when you already knew what you...
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    Older Guy Issue?

    Youve noticed a change in your relationship with your parents. You have begun lying to them, you feel pressured and controlled by this person. Your very health is being affected by this 'relationship'. Sweetie, why in the world would you risk all of this, for someone who woul be ok with you...