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    Mom again

    It sounds like your mother thinks your wife keeps interactions she's had with her family private in some situations and she'd like the same relationship with you. She shouldn't be surprised or upset you tell your wife everything but she may not understand why she can't keep secrets with you...
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    Divorcing my husband?

    None of this is your fault. His illness is likely something that's plagued him for years and is only now showing itself in really palpable ways. Next ask yourself this: Do I want to live like this for the rest of my life? Consider if it's a mental illness you may be dealing with lying...
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    how do i stop the emotional abuse

    You need to ask yourself if this is how you want to live the rest of your married life. If you say yes then pray for strength. If no then you need to be clear what your needs are and tell him that you will leave if he shows no willingness to change. You don't need to put up with abuse for the...
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    Husband gets annoyed if we talk

    I don't think anybody thinks that she's powerless or needs to cope with an absentee husband. Bringing up divorce as a card to play though is a bit underhanded. She needs to let her husband know what's wrong. She's not separated though. Far from it. She's just not getting quality time with...
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    Lu-Lu

    More like a personality test you take on the internet to decide if you're more like Samantha or Carrie from "Sex in the City." I'm trying to remember. There was "big feet" which implies big you-know-what I think. "Check his call log" that implied unfaithful (I think). Nothing outwardly mean...
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    Lu-Lu

    Even if an employer went to this website I don't think they'd see anything awful. You can't leave comments. They'd see things under negatives like gamer, not over exgirlfriend, commitment issues. Going to Facebook maybe. This no way.
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    Husband gets annoyed if we talk

    Keep it up I'll invade your post. But I'll give a great post first.
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    trying to give husband another chance

    We have to acknowledge that you told him that this was a deal breaker and he's done it knowing this more than once. If this is an addiction that he doesn't control and he truly wants to change this shows us that you can't be an effective accountability partner for him. It may hurt to hear but...
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    Husband gets annoyed if we talk

    This is a dangerous piece of advice. A wife throwing in a husband's face that she can divorce and get half of everything especially if she has kids is not only probably not true but very rarely the first step to fixing a problem. Scaring somebody with the threat of divorce and taking half of...
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    Lu-Lu

    I checked it out. There's not much to be offended about. I really think something done the same way towards woman would not be taken poorly. Nobody can write comments or generate reviews. You answer personality questions about somebody else that are very superficial and it comes up with an...
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    Husband gets annoyed if we talk

    I'm 50% German and I run my own business too. Getting a business off the ground is really tough and it requires a lot of focus and hard work. I bet that he's just operating on work mode 100% of the time and is having a hard time unplugging from it especially with so much riding on this...
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    My wife does not feel any passion for me anymore

    Ask yourself is she doing the wrong thing or going down the wrong path or is it simply that you have a different vision for how things should be done and she's not doing it the way you think she should be? Part of being in a marriage is stepping back and letting your partner handle a situation...
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    My wife does not feel any passion for me anymore

    I wasn't angry at all. I haven't been angry about it. I was surprised by your response and thought it was a little rude and confusing and that's what I tried to express. If you disagree that's fine but that doesn't mean there is an issue that is related to internet communication. I wasn't...
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    Wife had affair for seven years, Kids 6 and 5

    She might just be having a hard time with moving. Moving is hard under the best of circumstances. This isn't the best of circumstances. Having a hard time with it seems normal. She has a right to feel like she does. Keep up the counseling and the open communication. I'm praying for you brother.
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    My wife does not feel any passion for me anymore

    Just going off what you wrote dude. It's not because it's the internet.
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    Lu-Lu

    You should. It doesn't tie to his Facebook but it gets public information off of it like if he's married and where he's from. Nobody can see the review on Facebook. Just Lulu. We downloaded it to look at and it seems harmless. It's like those dumb quizzes you take online for fun. She did...
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    My wife does not feel any passion for me anymore

    It sounds like the pressures of keeping you happy has beaten any passion she has out of her. It's going to take a long time to fix. A 50% change in your attitude for four months isn't going to cut it. It's only technically better than nothing but really it's nothing. It's not even most of...
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    What's The Top Reason For Divorce?

    I heard money is the biggest reason for divorce. My first marriage ended for a collection of reasons. I didn't trust her, she was abusive, manipulative, she pretended to be a different person when we dated so when we got married I didn't really know her, she was crazy, I didn't love her, I...
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    Lu-Lu

    I had the wife download it to check it out and she reviewed me. ^_^
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    Eldest child and partner choices

    Are you sure you're not talking about me? This really could have been me and my first wife and our relationship. The difference is my family loved her and when I had finally had enough and I left some were totally unsympathetic for quite awhile. When we were dating she was fantastic but after...