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  1. Ace99

    Marrying someone you don't think is attractive?

    I just wanted to share something that maybe relevant, for my past two relationships, one was 12 years younger than me, and the other I am very sad to say was married, I feel the enemy really worked on me because I was really attracted to both of them, both relationships really hurt me, and one...
  2. Ace99

    I am a Queen

    I thought it was quite good, found the music was louder than your voices, but Good effort, God bless
  3. Ace99

    Has being a Christian made you boring?

    It can sometimes be boring being a christian, a few years ago i would be in the night club leering after girls, getting drunk, having a laugh with the boys but all that is gone where i would be out partying all weekend. 10 0 clock is late for me to be out, i feel so sad in many ways, but ive...
  4. Ace99

    Low-Stakes First Dates

    That was very interesting, there is this girl I would like to take out but I'm in a place where I have to take things very slowly because I'm in recovery, so I think I'm just going to ask her if she would like to come for a coffee, so we can get to know each other. Thanks again for putting this...
  5. Ace99

    What are you doing for Valentine's Day?

    College Work, that's about it,maybe thinking of my old valentines, and if there maybe one for next year. All in all a pretty sad valentines day, but there's always hope for next year.
  6. Ace99

    Maybe lost my last best friend

    God bless you brother, it must be very hard for you, but God knows what you need, I'm hoping he will bring some special people into your life. He has already begun this by directing you to this site, where you can talk among your wonderful brothers and sisters. Who can help you and pray for you...
  7. Ace99

    How can I stop "stalking" my ex?

    Prayer and Peace, I know what you mean by stalking I kept texting my ex girlfriend I couldn't let it go, I only recently after three years, have been able to leave it in gods hands, my mind would go crazy, what's she doing, where's she going, who's she seeing, then looking at the time thinking...
  8. Ace99

    What's the point?

    Thank you very much, it's so hard I felt so bound by the enemy this morning. I just wanted to die, I know I idolise I have begged God to help me, it's not my fault I don't know where it's come from, I don't want it, I want everything in balance, God first and a wife second if it's his will, like...
  9. Ace99

    What's the point?

    Why in the middle of everything, do I feel God taking everything away from me, I asked God to take away my fear of not being in a relationship, and it's nearly all gone, I asked him because of inappropriate contentography,( in my life before being a christian) to lower my sex drive, for a while so I can be...
  10. Ace99

    What's the point?

    Why in the middle of everything, do I feel God taking everything away from me, I asked God to take away my fear of not being in a relationship, and it's nearly all gone, I asked him because of inappropriate contentography,( in my life before being a christian) to lower my sex drive, for a while so I can be...
  11. Ace99

    Someone please pray for me

    Hawisher, try to talking to her, see how things gobut keep praying to God, he will direct you if you seek his will in this,
  12. Ace99

    Someone please pray for me

    It's nice you have found someone, hand it over to the father, pray about her, if she is for you, then let god take control, he will bring her to you if she's the one. Praying for you God bless you brother
  13. Ace99

    Worldliness / Godliness

    For me if as I believe Jesus did die for our future sins, it is about acknowledge the sins before the father and saying sorry, as in the case of my own father, when i was a child, if I did something wrong I would say sorry and mean it because I knew it was wrong and I didn't want to upset my...
  14. Ace99

    Worldliness / Godliness

    A worldly mindset lives for self, and selfish pleasures a godly mindset lives to glorify God, I don't know what to say about those who do not believe that Jesus died for all our sins, I believe it 100 percent, with all my heart.
  15. Ace99

    Worldliness / Godliness

    You can't balance out worldliness and Godliness, for example if you sin, you can't weigh that sin and say a half hours praying will make up for it, Jesus died for all your sins, past present and future, all you can do is repent of your sins and keep going with God, praising him for his Grace...
  16. Ace99

    I will pray for you to find a husband or wife!

    Azure blue, I'm sorry I forgot to tell what I would like in a mate, she would be my best friend, someone that will have strength In spirit, that I will find attractive, that I can read the bible with, a biblical wife. someone that will help me growing closer to you my loving god. Somebody that I...
  17. Ace99

    I will pray for you to find a husband or wife!

    Well Azure Blue, I thank you for reply to me, if you are willing I would ask you to pray that Gods will is done in my life, I really would like a wife but it is up to him I yield to his will, but if he has a wife for me that would be lovely, thank you in advance, and I'm Sorry if my first reply...
  18. Ace99

    Battling depression & anxiety over the (non existant) prospect of marriage...

    To Jenny Jen Wow I am so sorry all of these things have happened to you, I totally understand you not wanting to be near any Christian men, but you must know one thing, if these men are truly Christs, if they are walking in the spirit of God, there is no way on this earth that they could do...
  19. Ace99

    I will pray for you to find a husband or wife!

    Azure blue, yes I do agree with you on the fact people are being told that we should be single, I for one went to a singles confrence, it wasn't about dating, I thought it was how to use my singleness for the time, for Gods glory, for example, I thought until I get married, (God willing) I could...
  20. Ace99

    I will pray for you to find a husband or wife!

    All I was trying to say is seek his will first, if we seek God first, then he will give us what we need, so it's not a matter of seeking a wife or husband or saying I'm going to be single, just seeking God first, because if God truly desires someone to be married, he will draw the two people...