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  1. Puptart

    Hangout Pictures Thread!

    Nothin but Jasper! He had a little impromptu photoshoot tonight.
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    Is this an example of "Gaslighting"

    Some words deserve to be re-defined. There was a time when the word abuse would never be considered for verbal/emotional abuse.. physical abuse was the only "accepted" form of abuse. The definition has changed dramatically already. I'm not saying you're wrong either.. I wouldn't go so far as...
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    Is this an example of "Gaslighting"

    I edited my original post, sorry about that, it says all the same things plus a bit more. It does seem like he gets a kick out of it, that's exactly how it struck me, like he thinks the conversation is a game to see how long you can go without getting an answer from him. It's so not OK.. but I...
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    Is this an example of "Gaslighting"

    The bold part is the problem for me. This is a belittling statement designed to hurt your feelings.. it's not OK, not by a long shot. From what very little is in your first post in those two examples, your husband appears to willfully avoid answering the question outright and instead tries to...
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    How do you percieve Christianity?

    What do you think Christianity stands for? Christianity is a relationship with God. It should always stand for each individual's personal relationship with that God. It should not stand for power-trips, people telling other people how to live their lives, discrimination, or other similar...
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    Girl Problems..

    So there's a girl you never liked in the first place... and you tell her that you'd consider being with her as long as she changes everything about herself to make sure she's exactly what you want instead.. and she blows you off? Wow I just can't imagine how anyone could do such a thing...
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    what do you thinkof Oprah ?

    She's highly overrated. That's about all I think of her.
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    ... Here we go again *sighs*

    It's hard, but sometimes agreeing together that it just isn't going to work is for the best, and leaving on half-decent terms is better than pushing it to the brink when you might be all-out at war with each other and the children are caught in the middle. Just as all things do, this too shall...
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    Not sure what denomination I am...?

    When people ask me "What translation" I tend to put forward that I've read over a dozen different Bible translations cover to cover.. what, you haven't? Get cracking. Ultimately it doesn't matter what translation, or what denomination. You shouldn't stress about it too much. If you've got a...
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    How old is the world?

    Approximately 4.54 billion years old. She looks pretty good for that age, don't ya think? :D
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    Prayers for the ending of abortion, peace etc

    I pray that all people of the world stop telling each other how to live their lives.. so there actually can be peace. :)
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    Apologies to all

    :hug: I didn't see it, but you get a hug anyway.
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    Islam thread ~ let's discuss questions I have about Islam

    I'm an ex-Muslim, I have some insight for people who are asking genuine questions anyway.. the problem I find is that most people ask loaded questions ;)
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    Girl Names

    Ooo, if it's pronounced Ava then I change my vote. I vote for Eva as Eee-vah :D
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    Islam thread ~ let's discuss questions I have about Islam

    I love how the people here can't even answer a direct question. :doh: Well.. Muslims believe in one God (Allah), which is the God of Abraham. Technically Christians, Jews, and Muslims all worship the same God though some Christians will throw a hissy fit over that implication that they worship...
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    vanity on FB ?

    How do I feel about it? I feel nothing about it. It is what it is and I don't read too much into it. I post pictures if I change my hair or get a new piercing or tattoo.. other people do as well.. no big deal. The only "big deal" comes when you start trying to read between the lines and find...
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    Spilling the truth. Being honest. Please be kind.

    The best thing I can tell you is that you don't have to sit here trying to "prove" yourself to skeptical forum members. You know what's going on in your marriage, whether we know or not is irrelevant at the end of the day. Make decisions based on what you know to be true and what you believe...
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    What If His People Prayed?

    Casper crossed the Rainbow Bridge this morning. It is a devastating loss for everyone in our community who loved him deeply. :prayer:
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    What's on your mind? LSHO version :)

    Casper the American Eskimo, the light of his family's life, has crossed the Rainbow Bridge this morning. It is a devastating loss for everyone in our community who loved him deeply. :prayer:
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    Right now, I hate God, I truly do!!!

    Contrary to what people keep implying and perhaps even what you believe, God did not "take" your pet away, especially to teach you a lesson or create some sort of "bond". It was an accident. God was not directly involved, either by killing the dog, or by not stopping it. God does not...