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    Trying to understand

    I'm writing to find an understanding for my girlfriend. She's has Aspergers and has issues receiving criticism and also forgiving people. I'm afraid to say what I'm feeling a lot of times because of her short fuse. She gets upset easily and puts herself down. I feel for her, but I'd like to know...
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    Need advice

    Not sure where to post this, it is quite sexual in nature and a past sexual problem for me. I recently got into a relationship with a young lady. I'm 35, she's 26. I have never been in a relationship. I have never kissed anyone. I don't even kiss my mother on the cheek. I've been looking all...
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    Self Lust?

    I've tried to talk a little bit about it, but it never gets really discussed. I also hate not wearing shirts (like for swimming) and too short of shorts. This also involves my fetish for bubble gum. I can chew gum and blow bubbles without being aroused, but don't dare to in front of others. I...
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    Self Lust?

    Any thoughts, suggestions?
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    Self Lust?

    Is anybody aware of there body at all times? Like when you sit a certain way around others? Like if I'm wearing shorts I notice my legs a lot. I never sit with my legs spread or any way that would cause someone to fall (I guess that's a good thing). I sometimes look at my body lustfully. So I...
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    Why?

    Why did God give us sexuality and then tell us to use it with responsibility? Over and over the Bible talks about sexual immorality. Why give us such a powerful feeling knowing we would fail? I'm single, plan on staying single. I just want a release, and then guilt and shame come in. I know...
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    Don't know where to start.

    It's not that I don't want your help. I'm just a little lost.
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    Don't know where to start.

    Yes, but from what I've read I didn't see those symptoms. I've had these for years and it said that organs can stop work. As long as I've had this, I'd think I'd be dead now.
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    Don't know where to start.

    Not sure what you mean? I don't have any of those symptoms.
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    Many Symptoms, yet to find a diagnoses.

    Feel for you all. I'm in the same boat. Mine's brought on by movement (shadows, reflections, slight head movements, etc). Big stores are a no go without a mobility cart. I'm hoping there's an answer for all of us. Till then I pray that God will help us through it.
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    Don't know where to start.

    I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this. Am I chronically ill, I don't know? I suffer from back problems, to allergies and asthma. To anxiety and depression. My main issue right now is dizziness. It comes and goes, meaning it's always there, but is sometimes worse than others. No doctor...
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    Feel like giving up

    Went to my councilor today hoping I'd feel better, but instead feel worse. I'm a indecisive person. I believe it's an illness. I live in a household of hell. That's what I'm told. All my issues come from living with indecisive parents. We all made bad dissensions in life and now we're suffering...
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    needing answers from men

    I sometimes wish I had no sexual urges at all. I don't like being the lustful person I am. I constantly have feelings, even sometimes reading these forums. I don't know why I'm like this. I struggle with the fact that God gave us such a responsibility, to control our sexual tendencies. I hope we...
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    Are they all lies?

    I don't have any children, so I guess I don't know how they think, my bad. I never had any siblings either, so I guess I would have no reason to think such things. But the sexual tension is another issue. I was addressed on these issues, and understand them more. No hard feelings.
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    Are they all lies?

    A kid thinking he is Spider Man is one thing (I thought if I thought hard enough I could climb walls) but a profound thought by a 3 yr old? If your child came to you with questions like that what would you think or do? Where in the world would he get thoughts like that if no inside or outside...
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    Are mental health issues real?

    Had to endure a Bible study group today talking about depression. One no completely agreed that it's a Spiritual issue, but I heard a lot of "they're selfish and prideful". Not sure if the "Lack of faith" got brought up, I kinda tuned out. Not saying somethings aren't in our control. It's hard...
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    Are they all lies?

    As adult men and women yes. But how does a 3 yr old child come up with thoughts like this without any inside or outside influences? Is he demon possessed? Family sins? Cursed? I don't get it. My thoughts as a child were way outside of the realm of normal child thoughts. At school age I thought a...
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    Are they all lies?

    The testosterone was meant more for Sexual Predators. Why do some people have more sex drive than others? I've always had a strong sex drive. I was introduced to sex at an early age. Is this why I'm screwed up?
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    Are they all lies?

    I'm not saying whether it's lies or not. All I know is I've ask God to take my thorn out many times. I'm not sure why this post was moved. Seems like it would be better discussed in the original forum. Oh well.
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    Keep getting Denied

    That's the problem, the doctors can't diagnose me. I vertigo, but what kind? Don't have any money to see specialist. I can see where God has used me in comforting others. I can relate to others that have been down that hard long road. It's the others that bother me. They look down on me, They...