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I've known wonderful, sweet innocent Christian women who have stopped having sex with their boyfriends and pledged to live differently & responsibly in their dating. I've also known atheist women that determined to remain virgins until marriage, which is also a good thing. Very sound advice...

A Witch's Invitation is track No. 3 on Carman's Revival In The Land LP/CD from 1989. The song is on the 2000 The Heart of A Champion compilation CD. The song is on Youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YT9k_U73QZY It may be on Spotify as well. The problem with Carman's songs is...

I have that song. Will post info on what LP it's on later.

Jim, Was your bride an innocent Christian virgin too? Would be a beautiful night if lovemaking was new to both of them. Even if both weren't virgins, the non-virgin (often the man) would surely see the light of Christ in his innocent virgin bride's life and admire her for waiting, and...

True. Take a gander @ how this virgin woman so easily dismissed my arguments that she may want to "soften" her "never date a non-virgin man" standard. Do men waiting till marriage still exist? - Page 2 - LoveShack.org Community Forums I told her I admired and respected her for holding out...

Maybe he shouldn't have stated his confidence in his looks, but imagine he was decent-looking, as many guys are, including me. Yes, I was often told I was 'good looking.' Am sure Christian women are prideful about their looks :) I never focused on a girl's looks, btw. That was never an important...

Was & still is. Even if a 'good guy" stumbles along the way, he's still a good guy, same with 'nice girls.'

Gad, I've always respected your critical thinking skills -- even when you've applied them to my posts :)

Doesn't make such an individual a "better" partner. If that were the case, the players, the ones who had sex with 30-50 partners by 30 years old, would be THE BEST to date & marry... ... or the ones who have affairs with married people, go from relationship to relationship, they clearly have...

Spot-on

Thank you. Admit I've ranted a bit much on this topic (sorry). I never said this was ALL women's fault. Men cab be jerks too. Both sexes can be loose and irresponsible with their behavior or players. No gender is 'pure' on this issue. The examples I posted -- like that inexperience guy...

No, wasn't me posting all the angst about "feeling low" because they haven't had sex by 25... Merely posted a small sample of the many posts . I wasn't one of them, but lived like one, for most of my 20s, so I clearly identify or relate to them. It gets me that men HAVE TO LIE about their lack...

Fair points.

-------------------------- Didn't say that. Honestly, I was content holding hands, hugging, kissing and "making out' in the back of my car @ the drive-in movie theater sr. year of high school. But it's not wise for a Christian girl dating a nonCHristian to tell him he "never tries...

The "I must have sex before marriage in order to find out if we're sexually compatible" excuse to HAVE sex is popular these days and is also infecting the church, as this guy, who seems like a nominal Christian interested in dating Christian women, notes: Isn't this all screwed up? Look @ the...

More evidence older virgins are "looked down" & sneered @: Men, if you're an older virgin, LIE TO HER and pretend you're experienced Men, if you're an older virgin, lie to her and pretend you're experienced - LoveShack.org Community Forums Unfortunately, imagine many "Christian" girls...

That's what gets me, these unChristian attitudes toward the virgins. While many use to go-after or 'ridicule" women that weren't virgins (that wasn't right either), many in today's society, including in the church (sadly), look-down on or try to intimidate those who haven't had sex...

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Though I support virgins, I sometimes get the idea they're not very flexible on the matter. Here's one I interacted with: Do men waiting till marriage still exist? - LoveShack.org Community Forums