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    Surviving Infidelity

    Sorry for the mix up on the schooling. But you will both be in my prayers. :) I'm not entirely sure what changed. I think he just realized that he has, and I'm not trying to brag here, a great woman at home who loves him immensely and who has proven that she's going to stand by him through...
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    Surviving Infidelity

    Hi Joy, I have only been married about 5.5 years and for about 4 of those my husband had emotional affairs. I DO believe people can change but they have to want it obviously. We were young when we got married and as Sandradee0303 said it's not an excuse. But, for almost a year now I am...
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    Just separated today...completely lost and confused

    Yes, the only real issue is the kids. I have forgiven him for his wrongdoings and we are and have been moving forward from that. It's been a very difficult road but we've made great headway. My issue with that was I really felt and believed he had changed but I was having a very hard time...
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    Just separated today...completely lost and confused

    I actually am planning on going to our church tomorrow. They have a free counseling program there that I hope will give me some insight. I have been talking with a close Christian friend and she has been really great. She has encouraged me to give myself back to God which I am trying to do every...
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    Just separated today...completely lost and confused

    My husband and i have been married for 5.5 years. From the 1 year mark to about the 4.5 year mark we had a very rough time. Because we got married so young my husband betrayed me several times over that time. Just this past November he said he was afraid he couldn't be faithful to me and left...
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    He doesn't want kids

    I am going through the same exact thing. Actually, my husband of 5.5 years and I just separated I guess you can say, today. I am a complete mess because we are so perfect for each other in every other way. I've been told many of the same things as you have, to decide whether or not kids are...