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I would ask to look at his phone. Open his social media. See if he follows a bunch of hot women, see if he has inappropriate content on his computer history, or open browser history on his phone. But don't tell you are doing it. (well ask him first if he is into inappropriate content), if he hesitates when responding, you...

again sir, it involves WWJD. What would Jesus do. I am all for a solid economy. I am all for voting for a good politician. But when a policy directly contradicts "loving your enemy as yourself." I shrug away from it. I don't see Jesus building a wall to keep the poor people out. Do you...

Again Guys how we relate to people is pivotal to the root concepts of christianity. You guys are talking about computers and cars and all this 20th century stuff. But that is equivocation. You are equivocating computers, with loving other people through relationships. I think relationships...

I think I already adressed this.

ok so let me just ask you, what is the Bible to you? Is it God's word? Does God see the end from the beginning? When God wrote the Bible did he incorporate only cultural things that only applied to that day and age. Or did He write timeless truths that we can open and unlock to this day and...

well I have ADD, so I will be working on equipment, and my eyes are going everywhere. I will be looking at people over on line 2 or over on line 6 or 5. I am just looking everywhere all the time naturally. Because my mind literally is bored. I like my job but sometimes it gets old and I do...

Yes I agree. My job is a good job, it's at a cannery. I am a maintenance electrician. During the summer is our harvest and we get temporary workers in. I am in a sort of construction mindset at work. And when fresh meat comes in the guys just drool. I don't feed into that. But sometimes...

Well I don't disagree that I invite it. I absolutely do. But as I have mentioned there have been worship leaders wives playing the game with me. So it's mixed signals. I think girls don't even seem to try to avoid flirting. I see men, Godly men refraining from it. But I don't see Godly...

again if dating is important, it would be mentioned yes. After all God knew the idea of dating when the Bible was written. God named king cyrus hundreds of years before he was even born. don't you think he could do that same thing? Donkeys are in the Bible, cars are not. But locomotion is...

I know. That was before I rededicated my life to the Lord. I am better now. I don't entertain these thoughts, but some of these pseudo relationships established years ago, still exist. So normally you just cut all ties, and that is basically what I have done with everyone at church, but at...

THANK YOU SO MUCH! That is my desire. I don't know why girls like me, I am getting grey hair, and I guess I am just friendly and people like that. But I get propositioned a lot, at church or work. I just posted as I was witnessing to a young woman, she asked for my phone number. I was 44...

but being betrothed is in the Bible, being married is in the Bible, your saying that dating is not important enough to be mentioned, but betrothed is? Well if God thinks it's not important, than I guess it's not important to me. Again you are literally in a dating relationship, so I don't...

Again if that is the case dating as a concept would be in the bible. Engagements are in bible.

well I don't know. I am not always with them. In fact I was witnessing to a young girl in her twenties, and I was sort of looking at her. She was pretty. And I gave her a tract and said it talked about God, and she started small talk with me about my work and if I had a job. And then I said...

You write very well. I give you that. It's just that it is all wrong. I don't honestly think you understand men, because you don't have testosterone. Now I can't convince you of that, as you have already convinced yourself of the opposite. But anyway, if you can find a verse that supports...

I love that you think of men with more dignity than the shallow way I present them. But again I am talking about young men, not necessarily christian men persay. But the younger version of myself. I had my heart broken by three engagements, mainly because i was too physical with the opposite...

well I do wear it yes. But my wife actually does not want me to wear it. So I started wearing it last year despite her recommendation not to. I told her that people at church were sort of flirtatious. In fact some moms, that have single college age daughters were like making casual talk with...

I honestly was a young man with hormones and I was sexually aroused by her, (I wanted sex) TBH. And I think that is a God given thing to make young men commit to women. And it worked. I married her and I loved for years and years, until one day I just realized I was no longer attracted. She...

Ok maam, maybe you were not into men in their 40's when you were in your 20's. And that is good. But not everyone is that mature unfortunately. I don't think people should date anyone less then 10 years younger than their age. So these girls I would NEVER date. Not in a million million...

I Will read that link later THANK YOU SO MUCH! I don't in particular think I am befriending anyone at this point. It just casual flirting. But again flirting once is flirting too much. And it just sets a bad precedence and it's not a good habit, and it's so bad for relationships, and...