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    please help

    Just found out that I owe IRS money. We have had several bad years financially, even considering going bankrupt. Before you say it, we live a very frugal life, very modest home, 1 car payment which is under $200/mo, work hard, but have had some tough times financially, failed business, plus...
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    BPD, sex drive, and general motivation

    Hi Tins, Merry Christmas, lets start with the last first,,'I also lack motivation, in general' yeah, me too, but it is something you have to make yourself do, the sooner in the morning you start, the more you will accomplish. the sex part, a little tougher, a healthy marriage; espically being...
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    How do I deal with a spouse who constantly mocks Christianity?

    1. PRAY for him. 2. sounds like when you guys got married you knew this.
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    New married only one on going issue

    women have this crazy idea of overgiving at every occasion. Give her a budget. $25.00 at friends wedding, $75.00 at sisters' wedding
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    Don't feel loved by wife

    sorry dude, welcome to marriage, this is just your wife's personality. Has she always been like this?
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    Should Time be on praise in worship?

    1. you are under the authority of the pastor, 2. I always hated bringing my equipment to church (bass player), practicing, then play 3 songs.
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    How do you other 50+ guys handle (for lack of terms) this?

    I live with a lot of regret from past failures, money lost, bad decisions, lost opportunities. Not having a better job. Then I see old friends or acquentancies that are sucessful, about to retire, or already have, have a very nice home, nice incomes, go on nice vacations. where I just had to...
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    What TYPE of person are you ?

    The Dreamy Idealist Dreamy Idealists are very cautious and therefore often appear shy and reserved to others. They share their rich emotional life and their passionate convictions with very few people. But one would be very much mistaken to judge them to be cool and reserved. They have a...
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    Words beginning with 'R'!!!!! (2)

    run run Rudolph !!! ok it is 3 !!
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    Wine again,,

    Just wine only. Zeener. Just wanting to know the truth. We have believed what man says and are condmend by man or made to feel guilty if we have a small glass of wine
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    Wine again,,

    "drinking to much, eating too much, having too much - these things do not defile a man" Good statement, BUT it defiles God. We want more, but the bible CLEARLY warns about drunkards, gluttons, riches. Does not warn against drinking a little wine, eating modestly,and our daily needs to be met.
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    Wine again,,

    Lets Revisit this again, some people are totally against drinking wine, I have perosnally seen the bad effects of alcohol (drunkenness) in a life. The bible condemns drunkennes, But the bible does not say not to drink wine. as matter of fact it encourages it. Ecclesiastes 9:7 "drink your wine...
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    OK, these guys are on fire for the Lord, but,,

    Is this the result of the 'grace' movement? God's grace covers a multitude of sin,,,it does,,but as Paul said, 1. What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? 2God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer in it?
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    OK, these guys are on fire for the Lord, but,,

    Not married legally, living together,
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    Seeing Numbers

    hey, let me know if you see lottery #s !! just kidding, don't want to get another warning !!
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    OK, these guys are on fire for the Lord, but,,

    I know this couple who are excited about the Lord, they go to revivals, bible studies, quote scripture, etc, they live together but are NOT married, don't appear to want to get married anytime soon. last time I checked this is wrong, hey, I am not perfect, I fight my own battles, but this is...
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    What is a Christian's obligation to the enemy?

    New Testament is to love them & forgive them,,,the old testament they pretty much killed their enemies. David was not a sheep petter, he was a man of war
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    good ol baptist boy has been taught,,

    Also, the verse you mention says nothing at all about gluttony. I'm mystified as to why you would say it does. Proverbs 23:21 21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags. Maybe you are a little to mystified,,
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    Can Teenagers Be On a Worship Team?

    sure you can, but if the worship team tends to be older, you need to act respectful of that & treat them with respect
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    How to step down from the worship team?

    I feel for you, we went thru this but we were driven out by snakes that were allowed in the church. They had an adgenda to make it their own church. The pastor did not see it or did not think there was anything wrong. Tried to talk to him about it, but we were given smart ellic answers. When we...