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    Courting vs. dating

    Some people use courting and dating interchangeably, I would define courting as a very serious relationship, where you have know each other for a while and might even have met each others parents, for me courting is when the relationship is definitely heading for marriage, whereas dating is when...
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    Relationships meanings: to like someone?

    To like someone for me speaks of attraction and the possibility of a romantic relationship emerging from the frienship if both parties are willing.
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    Dating outside race

    There is nothing wrong with dating outside your race, there is no racism in the body of Christ, no Jew or gentile, in Christ we are all one and the same, if God doesnt look at skin color but looks at the inside then we should do the same. It is man that looks on the outside - God looks on the...
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    How did you know that you found the one?

    sometimes it takes losing or almost losing what you have before you know its value, like the old saying goes "you dont know what you have till its gone" it was when I nearly lost my wife then my girlfriend due to my stupidity and foolishness that I realized what I was loosing, for me I saw that...
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    Married men. What should I look for in a wife?

    Look for a woman that fears God and believes in you. Most important of all be convinced in your heart that this is the woman God wants you to be with. Stay clear of women that want to compete with you and prove their independence, nothing wrong with a woman being independent but when she feels...
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    How important is respect and obedience in a wife?

    Respect is extremely important to men, nothing will anger a man quicker than disrespect especially from the woman he loves. When a man feels disrespected he will pull away and it can really do a lot of damage to the male ego and confidence. So if you want a happy husband, respect him, respecting...
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    Fiance masturbates and it causes insecurity for me

    Sounds like the masturbating has become a stronghold since he no longer has much control over it. The thing is that marriage will not cure it, I have friends who didnt deal with their masturbating and inappropriate contentography issues before they got married, they thought that marriage would solve it because...
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    Why don't men wear engagement rings?

    I am not sure there are many cultures in the world where the man wears an engagement ring. In fact I dont know any. many married men dont even like wearing their wedding ring so I doubt they would want to wear an engagement ring (personally I wouldnt mind wearing one because I like jewelry)...
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    Length of time between engagement and wedding day

    My wife and I were engaged for 2 yrs before we got married, its good to take your time and not rush things, marriage is a lifetime decision so only go into when you feel ready. Also depending on how elaborate you want your wedding to be, you will need time to plan and save up (Boy are weddings...
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    Made a mistake of moving in. Ok to move out?

    its better in my opinion to move out, he has become to comfortable and therefore there is no urgency to get married, he is already enjoying all the benefits of getting married without actually being married so he'll putting getting married off until you give him a reason to want to get married...
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    Help on staying pure

    :wave:You know, David in Psalm 119:11 says that "your word have I hid in my heart that I may not sin against thee" The key to staying pure is to fill yourself with the word of God and be committed to obeying them. Out of the abundance of our heart the mouth speaks, I also believe that we act...
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    "He's with YOU isn't he"

    I think you're right, someone being with you is no consolation for their indiscipline, sometimes it better to part ways and find someone who will show you the respect you deserve.:amen:
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    BF upset because I want to stop having sex

    I actually commend you for wanting to do the right thing, whenever we find ourselves in a situation where we have to choose between pleasing God and pleasing man - God should always come out on top. Never compromise. Maybe you guys should just get married, if you love each other and want o...