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    New to Christian Forum

    Hi I became a born again Christian at five years of age. GOd healed me of personal wounds in my past. I am 40 something and have no kids. I like to help people and heal by learning from others etc. Judith
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    *possible trigger* A letter to secondary survivors

    There is a conversation between a secondary male partner and survivor that is happening and has been happening. The conversation has started recently. on aftersilence. That is more current and ... so on If your interested.. Judith
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    Is it healing to share?

    Hi sharing It helps me when others share. Thoughts? Judith
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    Just when I thought it was safe to talk about...

    Hi sharing It takes time for the feelings to be worked out. Expressing feelings is of the utmost importance when healing from abuse. I know. Retrain our thinking etc. Healing can happen. The person that said that she wasn't sure or something. dont remember her exact words but-the key is to...
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    confused!

    Hi sharing He has to earn your trust back. Dr Dobson and others will also give tidbits on what you can do to rebuild the trust. HE your husband has to rebuild your trust and one way he can do that is by letting you know where he goes. THat is showing you that he cares and wants to make it...
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    struggling with a non-affectionate husband

    Hi sharing Even if he is unequally yoked, SOmetimes men dont understand that women need nonsexual affection through out the day. He may just be one of those that lacks information or his past his a contributor.Have you been able to sit down and talk to him when he is in a good mood and ask him...
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    This sexual immortality is trying to consume me :(

    Hi For me it is easier if I respond below your responses. Alright I'll try to keep this short and simple. I'm 16 years old and struggling with what I would call a inappropriate contentography addiction. I started watching straight inappropriate contentography at the age of 10 out of pure curiosity. I never masturbated to it...
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    My wife thinks she can't be happy with me

    Have you thought about asking her about going with her-Or just going with her. I dont know if you are in the US or not. But I dont know if you watch movies or not. But the classic with CAry Grant in it. Shows how what he did to bring his wife to her senses when she was interested in a another...
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    I had such high hopes for "Every Man's Battle"

    Are you able to get Dr Dobsons book on Tough Love. Are you able to go on line and get a filter for yoru computer. That tracks every where he goes. Tough Love means we put a stop to unhealthy behavior. Have you discussed with him how it makes you feel as a woman -some men dont realize that it...
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    any advice?

    Put God first. Your marital second and or with God in the middle. CHildren next. Extended family next. Make sure your relational issues are healed. etc. If you find your in a spot that nothign is healing. Seek Godly counsel etc. Dont let it go on forever. I know I suffered it from parents who...
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    Hello, Hello, Hello!

    IT doesn't seem large to me. I came to hear what others talk about and to see what I can offer to help etc. I just hope it stays busy. God has healed me of personal pains in my past. God use a counselor in my life-among other things Judith 40s USA