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    Restraining order and still contacting me

    If you have a copy of the order call the police on her. Show them the texts and file a report.
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    Exposing a liar in the church

    The higher ups in the church are not concerned. If I had a man’s voice I may have been listened to, and spoken to like a human. This was my impression. It is sickening to see bad people, who possess no fruit, worm their way into leadership positions in the church. No one has the...
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    Exposing a liar in the church

    I agree, someone higher in the church and not the pastor should be made aware of this. This church has constitutional issues and serious leadership problems. The pastor has very little power in this church.
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    Exposing a liar in the church

    I don't receive counseling from him and I will never speek to him again, one interaction with this man was enough for me. The man has been at this church for a very long time and of course he is up there with God status, very well received and respected. I'm not concerned with the way I...
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    Exposing a liar in the church

    Quite a few months ago we were attending this church in Ballwin, MO. The people at this church were very unfriendly. We went to see this church counselor to try and find out what to about the issue. We have lived in this place for, going on 4 years, and are unable to make a life for ourselves...
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    Can't seem to make friends with Christians

    No true Christian would ever tell anyone that it's good they left the church. If some "Christians" don't like being referred to as "blanket statements", then stop behaving like clones of one another.
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    Can't seem to make friends with Christians

    Thank you. The church that is full of abusive, unkind "Christians" should be left to themselves. I strongly believe God will make these places "dying churches". Withholding fellowship is not showing love toward others and is spritually abusive. No one should have to jump through hoops to...
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    Can't seem to make friends with Christians

    I would leave the church as the Christian religion teaches one thing, but the people do not practice what they preach. They expect everyone else too, especially the ones they abuse, [deny fellowship]. Who needs that?? Who needs the negativity?? Life is either too short to put up with this...
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    Can't seem to make friends with Christians

    This is why I left the church. It seems that now days people go to church for psych issues, not to be fun loving and social. When I see a church I think "nut house".
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    Church Warmth

    This is the true test, is it not? Cold churches do have have the fruit of the Spirit. I would not attend a cold church.
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    Did Jesus die for all of mankind?

    But the word, or term "elect". God "elects" those He wants to save through Jesus? I thought salvation was for everyone who believed in Christ. When someone tells me that God "elected" them to be saved I find this to be of Satan, not of God. Being a Christian doesn’t make you special to...
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    Did Jesus die for all of mankind?

    But, God elects those He wants to save. I'd call that some sort of favortism.
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    Did Jesus die for all of mankind?

    So God must "elect" you to be saved? We have been rejected by many churches and I believe we were never saved, because God never elected us to be saved. So the joke is on us and our future is in hell forever. I always thought Jesus was for everyone not only those God wanted to "elect".
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    Did Jesus die for all of mankind?

    Who is the cross for, the elect few, or all of mainkind?
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    I'm hopeing for some Advice

    It's better to take care of sexual urges yourself, than to go have sex and make a baby. There is no sin in self pleasure.
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    I'm hopeing for some Advice

    Well your 17 years old and male so I would expect this behavior to be normal. At 17 your hormones are crazy and sex will be on your mind most of the time. There is nothing wrong with masturbating, it’s normal, having sex would be the sin. God made our sexuality. You can still pray and be...
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    I cant find peace about going to college...

    Art therapy is a specialization in psych, or you could do composite drawings of criminals to help crime victims. You could teach art on the side. Make sure you get all the gen. ed. classes done in your community college experience so transferring to a 4 year university will be easy for you.
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    I cant find peace about going to college...

    Don't do the family thing just yet, because every woman in this day and age must have a career to be able to take care of herself and/or her kids. Marriage can be lost due to divorce or death. Think outside the box. You want to help people. Medical school, law, nursing, police officer...
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    Is it wrong for I, as a christian, to cut my hair?

    If you cut your hair God will love you anyway. I believe the hair thing is found in the Old Testament. We are living in the New Testement.
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    Camp fire Chat about Evolution

    I'm glad you think your special in God's eyes as to be one of the "elected elite". Congratulations.