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I was once told by my ex-pastor that separation only works once. If you keep doing it, it really has no effect. I can attest to that!! My husband moved out 8 weeks ago .. for the 6th time! It's beyond ridiculous how he expects us to work on our marriage when we are apart, but I know that we...

Alone one, There is a book called 'A Dad Shaped Hole' which is about how to relate to God when your earthly dad has disappointed you. Great book. :-)

I agree with needingchange. I don't think these are wedding vows either that he is speaking about.

soul2008, I understand where you are coming from. When I got my first divorce from my first husband, I was starved for affection. My self-esteem was at the lowest point ever due to his treatment of me. I went looking for someone to see some value in me and wound up spending time with the...

Hisblood, Are you married to my first husband??? Sounds just like him! He was controlling and really didn't care much to try and fix anything. Of course, everything was always my fault and he was a very selfish person. I married him when I was 18 and was married to him for 20 years. So...

I definitely understand what you are saying. I've always said that my husband loves me much deeper than I love him. We both acknowledge it and he feels insecure because of it, but I don't know if I have the capacity to totally give my heart to someone like he has. I'm his whole world. So...

This is a tricky question. I'm currently separated from my husband, but I will have hope that we can reconcile until the papers are signed. We both are so tired of our issues. Anyway, this is my second marriage. After the first marriage, I did not date until 4 weeks after the dissolution...

Yes, I agree that emotional adultery is STILL adultery. I once committed the 'real' act of physical adultery so I guess I should know. It starts with 'emotionally' giving and receiving from a man other than your husband and it will usually lead to the 'physical' act. Don't downplay what you...

My marriage is in the midst of being restored as we speak. Hopefully, my husband will move back in soon. :-) The most important thing we both have done is tear down the walls we had built around our hearts so as to not get hurt. But the same wall keeps you from being able to fully give your...