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that's awesome sparkydave!

Why is it so different because you are black, that a black woman rejects you? I have had a lot of white men reject me, but see that's the difference. I don't look at people or relate to them soley based on race. And if I were on here saying what you say, that all white men reject me so I ONLY...

While we cannot understand how it was for you to be born black, you have overcome many of the obstacles that many black men face growing up in the projects. So you aren't one of "those" kind of "black men". But you only want to date white women and you seem put off because they don't all want to...

I am a step mom. When I came on the scene their mom had run off with her boyfriend and left the kids at a babysitter and a note for my husband when he got off work. The girls were almost 3 and 5 years old. At first there were no issues but later when they got older, it would appear that...

I dare you to tell her you sent the same invite to three other women and see how she likes you then.

yay for that sparkydave

exit I just know that we send out signals. I think I have been sending out the wrong signals too so you are not alone. Personally I think you try too hard, expect too much, come on too strong and are always ready to respond in the negative about your situation. May I suggest that next time...

exit I don't know why you have so many issues. You seem like a nice guy and have told us that women IRL tell you this. Could it be that on these cruises you might subconsciously be sending out desperation signals? I mean in my case as a woman, I have heard guys say things like "she's got hungry...

Next to the post number at the right is a little light bulb. You click on that to add to that posters reputation because you liked what they had to say.

When I met my husband he had his two little daughters that were almost 3 and 5. His wife ran off with a truck driver and left the kids with him. He was an excellent dad. He also had a son that he fought for custody of before his girls were born but he lost, she moved out of state and the state...

Two months is not very long. I can say in my past experience I haven't ever gotten over my ex. I did move past it though and married a wonderful man and was married for 25 years until he died. I'm not over him either. I think if you were to date someone new it would be easier for you to move on.

that is not enough information to venture a guess. why is the better looking one less available? And these are fairly new relationships so you don't know if the guy that wants to make you happy has ulterior motives. You need to get to know them both better to make an informed decision IMO.

I would be leery just because you don't know him and he is seemingly wanting to move too fast. And yeah, a lot of guys think pre-marital sex is necessary and I call BS on that, they just want what they want.

And all the animals have "appropriate plumbing" for each other too. I think you read it a certain way because sex is SO important to you and yet you have not married again yet you want sex so bad. I think you make too much of it and I think we are polar opposites on this issue and that's OK

OK but in the garden there is nothing in the bible stating He (God) created Eve for SEX. He created Eve because Adam complained that there was no one like him. He did not complain that all the other animals get to have sex and he was being deprived. Eve, or the woman was created to be a help...

OK wait, so because she decided to check out your linkedin profile, you would normally automatically think stalker? From a female standpoint, I would check someone out to make sure THEY weren't a stalker or worse. And the kid thing....worry about that later. I was worried about getting...

BBM please do elaborate to what your view of what "the normal function of what marriage was designed to be"

I disagree about it being "loving" to divorce someone because you or they are dying. One thing that really has bothered me forever and can never be changed is that my mom so wanted to protect me from the fact that she was going to die, she always pushed it off to "someday" which she knew was...

Hey David, Haven't you harassed dayhiker enough? Do you think he actually will change his ways because you keep going after him about his sin? Would you like it if the tables were turned? no you wouldn't but you will probably say you don't have any really bad sins. Well sorry to say you...

quietpraiyze, most of us mature singles have been married before, so I'm pretty sure we have a good idea what marriage is. However there are several members that have been unfairly treated in their previous marriages and obviously are still hurt by the past. It's unfortunate for them...