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    Telling your spouse you want out!

    I am wondering the same thing. Also, can I force H to file or pay for my legal fees? he makes 2/3 of our income. Can I kick him out and ds and I stay in our apt? He will try to say that I have no right, "woman" and I need to know my place and he'll stay where he pleases.
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    Considering separation

    Also, does anyone know much about child/spousal support? We were apart for 3 months during my pregnancy (waiting on immigration) and I lived with my parents and he only gave me $80 to live off of. If we're seperated is he required to support our son and I or is he off the hook until/unless I...
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    Considering separation

    Thank you, I'll keep all of that in mind. Any ideas where I could go? or some way I could convince him that he should be the one to leave? He's been out of town for business and is coming back tonight. I guess we'll see what happens.
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    **Sensitive Matter-concerning Stillbirths**

    I wish my baby had been recognizable enough to take pictures. I miscarried at 9 weeks. She was perfectly formed, little arm buds and all. Maybe I should have taken a picture, I don't know. I didn't want to disturb her in case she was too fragile. I wish I at least had an ultrasound picture. I...
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    father seeks help with very young wife who seeks ana bortion.

    Most of life is made of of the ordinary. Likewise, not every sexual experience can be a mindblowing one. Sometimes the most boring session can turn out to be very intimate. but a lot are not really all that "special", just normal. my hubby calls them comfort sex, because they aren't mindblowing...
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    almost 1 year since i had a m/c

    So sorry hun. For me, the anniversary of the date that I lost my daughter was more painful than her due date. I was numb the whole day and then cried at the drop of a hat for a couple of weeks afterwards. I made sure to tell my sister-in-law who I work with so she knew what was going on (made...
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    Asking for an icon of remeberance of children we have lost...

    This is a great idea. I just selected a female icon for my daughter but I'd rather have a halo for her.
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    Considering separation

    No, if I leave him I will likely be cut off by my family, church, and most of my friends. I could stay with my brother and his family in an emergency (like 1 or 2 nights) but he has a full house already.
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    Considering separation

    My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We have a 2 year old son. Everyone thinks our marriage is as close to perfect as you can ask for. We try not to fight in public and he generally helps with our son when I ask him when people are around. If they could be a fly on the wall of our...