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oh wow, it isn't often that both spouses share on the same forums! From what I see, there is a huge difference in love languages and communication. I really think, sometimes, it comes down to simple things. Basic things. Husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church. Meaning...with...

This is completely unacceptable in a marriage. one, married women should not maintain any close/intimate/sharing of feelings relationship with any man other than her husband. two, if your wife is threatening to kick you out, then you know that her relationship with this man is more serious...

It has been a long while since I have been here. I want to say that I know it's hard when we feel like we have no more to give. I was on these forums when I was going thru the contemplation of divorce and then finally divorcing. I have to say .... there are times that I regret the decisions I...

My two brothers, who are Christians, have discontinued fellowship with me because my significant other is an unbeliever. They believe I am in sin....constant sin. I certainly do not see it this way. I probably am just ranting and feeling hurt..which is why I decided to make a post. They...

No clue what you're talking about here. It seems as if most people on here, sepcifically this area, would rather assume something is a certain way then really listen to what is being said. The general opinion of everyone is not what upsets me or bothers me. It is how it is delivered. In a...

quote=Luther073082;57309471]No you don't, otherwise you wouldn't get defensive when someone calls you out for what you are doing. If you accepted advice you might take a step back and look at this and consider the possibility that you may not have handled this in the most christian manner. I...

you know..I did not attack you in the slightest. You came out with both guns at me and certainly not in a kind manner. I accept all advice and I respect all opinions and thoughts christian and non christian alike. What is hard for me to stomach is someone saying that I have done things...

A) not still fuming about it (not sure where you got that unless you're going off someone elses response B) not harping on it..this thread was asking why a person says "he's with you isn't he"? which by all accounts this thread has been completely detracted from it's orignial title. So if'n...

Hrm...Im not harping on anything..Im defending myself against a young boy who seem's to believe something that isn't true. This is not about ending a relationship..this is about someone doing the wrong thing after this someone promised that he would never do that. Now given my past situation...

Yes, you are correct! Having had to....ughh...<shakes her head> go through all of that for so long and feel like a worthless and undesired women..well..the pain is deeper than any I've ever known. I had loved this man so very very much and would have done anything to make him love me that...

Hey thanks for that Christianly love..:doh: I did not "browbeat" him at all. I expressed my unhappiness for some things he had done (in a different post) and how it hurt me. I am extremely forgiving of mistakes. I was married for 20 years to a man who abused inappropriate contentography for at least 10...

I had thought about that from time to time, taking a break or something. And I'm suprised sayind douche is alright but saying pi-ss-ed off and calling it a cuss word by the forums here..is a retarded:doh:

Hahah I had not known that Pi-ss-ed off was cussing..

No offense but it would be impossible to grasp the concept of inappropriate contentography and cheating being in the same category since you are not a Christian. I believe what the Bible says about what constitutes unfaithfulness. I cannot compete with inappropriate contentography nor should any woman. Hell yes I am...

I get a bit frustrated at the "he's with you isn't he" response. When your significant other does something that hurts you, say...either looking at inappropriate content, cheats or something of that nature, and you try to talk to someone about it and the response is...he's with you isnt he? What the heck...

Gahhh....there are so many different views here =P If the OP is Christian and is having guilt over her feelings of lust and wanting to have sex..I just don't know what to say..As a Christian one should always refer back to the bible. Sex before marriage is wrong. Period. Now lusting is a...

I think you bring up good questions. I did get married at 19. Although that did not work out for me and we were divorced 20 years later I do not have a problem with marrying young. I also think though, that in every generation there seem to be that group of kids who are just not smart enough...

If there was a "like" button Id click it thanks for your post.

Since your husband doesn't watch it or isn't interested in it you're lucky. I know you say that you wouldn't care if he did as long as he didn't do it around you, I find that unless you are really in the situation of knowing your husbands in the other room getting his jolly's on over seeing...