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    "Friends"

    I will say that I find it very frustrating not to be able to find quality "friends"
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    "Friends"

    With all of my "friends", I dont ever seem to hear from them except when they need a favor or want to talk to me about a problem...other than that, I never hear from them. This to me doesn't seem like friendship. When I need someone to talk to, none of my "friends" are available. Advice??
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    Any current or previous grad school students?

    I am also a graduate student doing Nursing. I still owe on my undergrad loans and FAFSA does help too much bc they dont give grants or scholarships to grad students. When u grad maybe u can do a loan repayment program where u work in an impoverished area...
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    Would wearing coloured contacts/false eyelashes be a sin?

    No I dont believe it is. God judges the heart, not the outward appearance, As long as you are not causing anyone to "stumble" it's not a problem. I do see why u would ask this question, interestingly my friends have the belief that wearing false eyelashes, acrylic nails, hair color, earrings...
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    Mate and Mom dont get along

    Yeah they both are pretty much hard heads. My mother doesn't call him names (to his face), but she doesnt respond well to him and he makes it known that he doesnt like her from the way he acts toward her. My mom stated, "He is never welcomed in my home." When I had our baby, my mom and him both...
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    NO Romance

    Thanks guys. Its not even him never being romantic, but it should be fairly easy to be thoughtful. You can be thoughtful to a stranger. He expects certain things and even though I am not the "lovey dovey" type, I modified my way to accomodate him to make him happy.
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    Joining a College Fraternity/ Sorority a Sin?

    For example, like the Masonic Fraternities (The Order of the Eastern Star), where I have know ex-members that say they have witnessed pagan worship, wife / husband swapping etc.
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    NO Romance

    Im am 25 years old to answer your question Melissa 1208. Its not that I demand these things, but I would love to be reciprocated. He wants these things done for him and I do them. Also as for relationships goes, it's not about "this is how I am and you can't change me". Relationships require...
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    Mate and Mom dont get along

    Well my mother just says the way he carries himself and the way he speaks to her is sarcastic, arrogant and smart and she just doesn't like it at all. He also says the same thing about my mother. They both have just agreed that they cant stand the other...I try to keep them a part as much as...
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    Joining a College Fraternity/ Sorority a Sin?

    I said that I was discussing the issue with a friend....I do not feel this way at all bc of where I stand with sororities. My friends felt that its unholy for me to be such a part because of the negative associations and also a few church members have become "inactive" in their sororities and...
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    Mate and Mom dont get along

    Well fortunately I have a good relationship with my family and wouldn't consider "cutting" them out of my life because they can't get along with my mate, not only for my sake, but my daughter's sake (so that she is able to know my side of the family). He comes from a real, cold and callous...
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    Joining a College Fraternity/ Sorority a Sin?

    Is anything wrong with joining a college sorority or fraternity? I was having this discussion a few days ago with some friends. Of course I may be slightly biased though?:P
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    Mate and Mom dont get along

    Unfortunately, my mother and my fiancee do not get along at all. I'm beginning to think that marriage is certainly out of the question...Everytime him and my mother are around each other there is a huge fight between them and I am caught in the middle. They argue so much, rude to each other and...
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    NO Romance

    I have the most unromantic fiancee ever in life! :( He never does anything sweet, no cards, no emails, no presents / no surprises not even for holidays. The only romantic thing that he has ever done was take my garbage out and hold the door open. Ive asked him to be more romantic, but he is...
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    My Dear Friend

    Thanks and she has filed for support, but he keeps dodging the payments somehow. She got 3 or 4 child support checks, then he moved to another state
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    My Dear Friend

    My good friend had a baby 2 years ago with a married man in the army. Now the man and his wife are filing for full custody of my friend's little boy. My friend takes care of her son (with the help of government assistance) and she loves the little boy dearly. However; the dad is financially...
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    Why does God allow suffering???

    It's easy to trust God, when you have a pocket full of money, when your are healthy and when everything in life is just perfect, but when hard times come as they did with Job also, thats when we can show our commitment to God. Hang in there, I agree that things do get tough, but he will never...
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    Honoring parents?

    pawnraider, I find this hard to do too sometimes when it comes to my mom. She tries to control and manipulate me (and others) by the money that she has. She will help you and give generously, only to throw it back up in your face at a later date; then when you refuse her help, she thinks of it...
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    Going to Strip Clubs, Ungodly?

    She says that she is going to "witness" to these strippers and that Christians shouldnt be afraid to go into places such as these. She claims that is the reason why ppl think Christians think that they are better than others
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    Going to Strip Clubs, Ungodly?

    Some friends and I were having the discussion with one of our mutual friends telling her that going to a strip club probably wouldnt be in her best interest, since she has rededicated her life to the Lord. However, she thinks that there is nothing wrong with going.