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Appreciate your thoughts and advice. I'd like to see what she wants to tell me and then I hopefully will have a lot of clarity on the situation and what steps to take next.

Yes. I have nowhere else to go in life. It may be a struggle at first for me if things don't work out, but with God's help I'll be fine. It is a weakness for me I admit because a long time ago a woman I liked didn't like me the same way and I felt hurt and struggled in my faith. I'll have to...

I'm not sure if it really is that way. There is something I haven't mentioned here that I don't feel comfortable mentioning in this public post that might have relevance. Yes I'm infatuated, but we haven't really talked that much and not a whole lot has happened between us. It's just almost two...

She's a believer. I don't know a lot about her faith, but I know she's believer based on some info about her that I know. I think God is helping me with my faith with this situation. For a long time I've been away from the faith and just recently I've been wanting to get back to worshiping God...

I trust those that I work with. They know me and have known me for a while. I don't think they'd make me look foolish like this. The co-worker who told me is very nice to me and we get along well and I don't think she'd mess around with me. Last week I felt like almost giving up on my crush and...

What I mean is when a couple starts a dating or courting relationship, what kind of things do they usually talk about to build their relationship forward? How often do they talk at the early stage of the relationship? What forms of communication do they use? Calling, texting, messenger? I've...

I appreciate the advice. Could be the case, but I wonder if she brought it up to her coworker. To me it sounds as if she wants to tell me something because they both want to talk to me, but it's going to be about my crush. I guess one of the biggest things for me is to not be so infatuated with...

Ok everyone sorry to bring up a somewhat old thread, but I have a new update regarding the same woman I've been interested in and would like know what you all think about it. I don't know if there's a twist to this or what to really make of it, but this past week one of her co-workers said that...

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You're right that she doesnt make time for me, but could it be that she's so busy? She told me she was so busy. Maybe she's unsure of me as far as romantic interest goes and that maybe over time she'd possibly start to like me? I dont know, these are just my hopeful possibilities lol. But I need...

That could be the case. I need to hear what I need to hear whether I want it or not. Thanks I'm just hoping that maybe over time she will like me. But I need to stop infatuation and focusing so much on her right now and open myself up to other women. Right now it's hard for me to do emotionally.

So I sent her a message yesterday and she replied back in normal convo style as before. Convo was very brief, but it was fun. I even had a dream about her showing what seemed like interest in me. I don't remember ever having a dream about her. What do you guys think? I need a reality check to...

I see where you're coming from and yes ideally I should've talked to her in person in the workplace and asked her out. But one is that I'm shy about it, but two I don't many good and easy opportunities to talk to her since we work in different departments. We don't really see each other much and...

I'm thinking I might sent her a simple greeting message and see where that goes. But that may the last message I send unless something changes.

Yeah it's just that when we were talking online, she communicated in a way that I interpreted as maybe showing some interest with the use of certain emojis and certain things said. I have no clue what she's looking for in a companion. I feel like I haven't gotten a chance to get to know her...

Perhaps theres some truth to that. I guess one of my biggest problems are the signs and indicators that I felt were signs of interest and I've had a hard time letting go of that and making sense of why it hasnt worked out so far based on those signs. I felt as if our brief convos were enjoyable...

Thanks for the advice. Will take it into consideration.

You might be right. I guess I'm looking for confirmation of my thoughts whether they mean there's something there with the woman or if it's just my own imagination.

Yeah. I'm just having a hard time moving on as I feel as if there could still be something there. If I say something then that could signal to her that I'm still interested vs not saying anything and her maybe thinking I'm not interested anymore. Maybe my interest could make her give me a...

Appreciate the thoughts everyone. I was wondering if a simple and brief greeting would be ok at this point? She didnt respond back to me from last week. One thing I may not have mentioned is she seems to come off reserved and shy especially compared to her co-workers. Also, we've barely had...