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  1. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    I don't think I have an amazing intellect...
  2. aldar

    mastabating

    Crespo, Concerning your last statement, it is becoming harder and harder to answer your questions without blushing hehe... do what your conscious can allow.
  3. aldar

    Is drinking 2 glasses wine every night a sin?

    Me and my wife love to enjoy a bottle of wine together on a lovely romantic night at home. Heck ya! It doesn't make me a drunkard or an addict. You can't beat a bottle of Sparkling Mascoto.
  4. aldar

    mastabating

    Uhm... we have already established that touching yourself can be innocent and not sin. So... in such cases... no I don't think it's wrong. Many married couples use objects like that to enhance their sex together and theres nothing wrong with that. Why would it become wrong for individual use? If...
  5. aldar

    Profanity and Self-Control

    Well I haven't been a christian very long, I use a lot of profanity. Untill last week that's just how I talked, it wasn't an effort to be crude or rude.. that's just how I talked and I felt nothing at all one way or the other about it. Obviously I still talk that way and I don't really feel...
  6. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    :/ I... didn't have anything to say about it except that I am familair with those ideas and understand why you think that way. Sorry I said so much of my own thoughts... I can't help that I think your incorrect and didn't feel like I learned from your ideas. I'll just leave you alone now.
  7. aldar

    mastabating

    I personally think the use of objects is fine as long as it remains within other innocent not sinful forms of touching yourself.
  8. aldar

    Lack of respect for women & Immodest dress

    To be continued... wow :) really? I feel like i'm 8 years old watching Macgyver again! That show had the greatest theme song ever.
  9. aldar

    Pray for Japan

    Let's keep Japan and it's people lifted up in prayer.
  10. aldar

    Let's pray for Japan

    Let's keep Japan and it's people lifted up in prayer through their time of crisis.
  11. aldar

    Social Anxiety

    NoNameMeg, Well for one, you need to "get in, where you fit in" not every social crowd is for you and that's just to be expected and it isn't your fault. You said Well, honestly... that is how you feel, that's what you believe. You are far to willing to accept that. You think those...
  12. aldar

    mastabating

    I am sure that more than one couple will be caught up to heavon during the throws of sexual climax on that fateful day :) Maybe not england but definitly football... that's a little thing guys hand down to younger guys on how to go the whole 100 yards.
  13. aldar

    mastabating

    Thanks I understand, I don't think it's a sin either but the idea that it is sin is very prevelant in our parents and grandparents generations becuase of things like modesty, shame, humilitation. Even amoung our more liberal christians of today, I don't think very many people could continue...
  14. aldar

    mastabating

    Watch your tone, this isn't one of the debate forums and your not talking to the same people. If can't give or receive helpful christian advice in a christian manner then refrain from posting.
  15. aldar

    mastabating

    You should definitly not be orientating your actions around getting rid of your wife.
  16. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    I am currently reading a book called "The Age of American unreason" by a Susan Jacoby. This woman is definitly not a christian but she is brilliant nontheless and even though I can't accept everything she says or thinks she has contributed an unspeakable amount of clarity to the way I think...
  17. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    Friend, I don't think your stupid or ignorant or a dumb christian. I understand what you believe, honestly without bias or contempt I tell you that I am confident that if you honestly, sincerely continue your search for information and objective truth and not allow your desires to create a...
  18. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    Just so you know, the only part of me that I can recongize as having changed since I became a christian is that God is indeed real and I try to live for him... I still believe everything else that I did while I was an Atheist becuase those mindsets and beliefs were valid becuase they were based...
  19. aldar

    Tug of war between logic and faith

    I am a christian who believes a very large amount of Atheist ideas are valid and true. That's me. I was an Atheist for a long time and for good reasons, my becoming a Christian didn't undo all of my thoughts and beliefs because not all of them were untrue. Don't ask me things when you know my...