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    My Affair = Hurt, Pain, Anger, Sorrow (long post)

    Hey looks like you got your last word in right there. Maybe she blocked you for now thinking she always could have you and can come back to you when she wanted too and the fact is you did what you did, made eye contact, walked right on past her gave her enough to unblock you to slowly start...
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    Divorced - but ex wife wont leave me alone

    WOW, so sorry this is happening to you....especially at a very exciting time in your life with getting remarried (congratulations by the way) Sounds to me your ex wife wants you back and is trying everything to get you back. Maybe she just needs to be put in her place and told you have no...
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    Considering Divorce

    It's been a LONG while since I last checked in and posted. Things are still the same ole same ole. Many may wonder why I am still sticking it out. I will try and explain. Somedays I feel like I could fall in love with him again, somedays I have nothing but resentment towards him, somedays I...
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    Hurt, Confused, Tired

    I don't have anything further to add that has already been said by others. I too, am so sad for you and so sorry you are going through this. But my one concern is why your wife is making it impossible for you to see your own kids. You both have equal rights to the children and not sure she is...
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    please help

    Hi Ya Dacs :) (Cool name by the way) Its such a hard situation you are in! I believe only you can decide what is best for you. It is so easy to second guess our thoughts and our feelings and what is right vs what is wrong. I mean technically you do have grounds for a divorce..she was not...
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    Considering Divorce

    I just don’t know how much longer I can do this for. I am so emotionally checked out. I wish I could say I love my husband. What a terrible person I am. I asked my husband today what it will take to get him motivated enough to find a job. He looked at me like I was crazy and said “I...
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    Considering Separation

    WOW,that sounds so difficult. Whether some feel it is right or wrong,it is how YOU feel! I know God can change people and restore marriages. The bible is very clear on divorce but if it were me I would definately divorce him...even if it went against biblical facts. But I am not in the right...
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    Considering Divorce

    That is a really good idea!!! Maybe I will try that. Everytime I try and talk to him he tells me I am talking to the wrong person I need to tell God and not him. So frustrating! Thanks for the idea :)
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    Considering Divorce

    I am sorry for not responding sooner. It has been sometime since I have been able to get back here and find my post. Hard situation forsure. I often wonder if we both just "settled". I jokingly asked him tonight if we should get a divorce and he said NO. I asked why and he said because it...
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    Considering Divorce

    Well here we are...nearly 7 years since all this started and NOTHING has changed! I have not left because I am torn about it all. He is a good guy but I am beyond frustrated! Not sure what to do anymore! He has been super affectionte with me the last few months and it makes me uncomfortable and...
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    Considering Divorce

    So what do you do when you just don't love your husband anymore? I have faithfully prayed for God to restore my love for my husband. I don't like to kiss him, hug him and when he does reach out for a kiss or hug it is like a big chore for me to do it. I am glad he is not too much of the cuddly...
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    Considering Divorce

    Thanks everyone for all your replies. I read them all. It is such a tough journey to be on. I have learnt so much about myself during this journey. Because of my disability I rely on my husband much more than I should I think. It is scary. I mean, due to my last surgery I can do so much more...
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    Has anyone divorced while being SAHM to 4+kids?

    I am so sorry you are hurting :( I am praying for you and your family!
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    5 Months Pregnant, and just found out Husband wants divorce

    I am sorry Mia :( Has to be hard with 2 kids on top of the whole marriage/separation. I wish I had words to comfort you. I am so happy you have good Christian parents who can help you through this difficult time. (((hugs to you)))
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    Considering Divorce

    My husband is going through one of his "attacks" and asked me to go and email some prayer lines for him so thought I would come on here and ask for prayer for him. I am at my breaking point though. I am not sure how much more I can take of this. When is enough just enough? We have been...
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    Considering Divorce

    I agree. He did have one done 4 years ago and when we asked again his doctor refused. I have told my husband he should go to a different doctor for a second opinion. So that will be our next step. He got a good night's sleep 2 nights ago for the first time in a long time and he seemed better...
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    Considering Divorce

    Ohhhh ok, hehe. I read it all wrong...But I tend to agree. There was one post I got and I was thinking..why is this person even posting on this forum...from reading their posts they are in a happy marriage and come across with no issues and how does that poster even know what we are feeling when...
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    Not sure what to do considering divorce....

    hang in there, I know its hard!
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    Considering Divorce

    Hmmmm, interesting. Made absolutely no sense to me in relation to what I am going through, lol...but thanks for the response. :confused:
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    Broken, don't know how I will make it through this

    My heart goes out to you and your boys. I hope you update us soon. Hang in there. You did what the only thing you could do. We are here for you!