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    What about custody or access?

    The structure of the court system I believe in an indirect way led to alot of the problems we see today. A male has absolutly nothing to gain and everything to loose by getting married. If for whatever reason the marriage comes to an end and it is not ammicable the male is typically the one...
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    trust in Jesus

    I agree with all that is being said but how did that one guy get into the banquet withot a robe. How can we ensure we are not that one guy, what are the characteristics of that one guy. I am not trying to be difficult it has just been bothering me.
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    trust in Jesus

    thats true but I have been conflicted with some of these scriptures because they are disturbing not because of the implications but how does one become that one guy without a white robe I mean how did he even get into the building?
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    Had enough of Marriage!

    Divorces and disolusionments can be really onerous its not like filling out a customer complain form at mcdonalds. And if they are in disagreement over assets it can make it really painfull. In the mean time you are sitting around without any physical intimacy, this is where I blame the state...
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    Had enough of Marriage!

    This a catch 22 because finding a chruch and members is not a substitute for an actual relationship. People do get desperate and you cant blame them, they have been abused so long and are finally getting what they need, God did not intend for us to be alone (and by alone he was not refering to...
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    has...

    TY
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    has...

    I used to be a power lifter and into martial arts before I married my ex and when things went bad I put on weight because I was depressed, I mean I was in my mid 20's and she was giving me issues about sex. I felt like I lost that time but the weight can come back off and the strength can come...
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    Marriages where the wife is stronger than the husband.

    This would be incredibly unlikely as I am extremely powerful physically.
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    Stress and your marriage

    Thats what we do as well ;) I have a good woman so I can deal with any stressful situation and bring it to resolution becasue I know what she has for me at the end of the day :).
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    Loneliness in a marriage?

    From reading through these posts it sounds like no one is convincing anyone of anything. Why do we get so upset with each other over this issue. I got pretty upset with myself when I went through the cafe line and had fries and did not tell the cashier because I did not want to pay for them, I...
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    Do you believe this is acceptable for your family?

    martial arts are cool (I practiced multipule martial arts and weight lifting for years), but these guys are meat heads, I could not stand watching this. I guess if they wanted to watch it at a friends house or something that would be ok I think this is a perfect example of christians trying...
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    trust in Jesus

    Why do we trust in Jesus when he has said so many disturbing things in the bible. 1. the banquite with the person not dressed appropriatly 2. wide is the gate to hell (suggesting most will go there) Thoes are the only 2 I can think of right now, but there are alot of disturbing things he...
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    What about custody or access?

    I think unless there is past criminal convictions or someother legal issues he has a legal right to see his kids if he wants and can petition the court for visitation rights, especially if he is being forced to pay child support he has a right to see his kids. If none of these things are...
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    has...

    More than I could have ever imagined. People from my chruch said what you are looking for is a ***(I can send you the trasnlation to *** if you want to give me our IM username) and good luck if you want to find someone like that. Well I got divorced and left the chruch and was blessed more...
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    Seperation to fix a marriage?

    Separation in my past marriage resulted in a divorce (and it did not take very much time for the divorce after the separation), just my experience others may be different.
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    I feel like i'm going crazy

    This is a thread you created http://www.christianforums.com/t7351348/ things cant be going that bad.
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    My marriage is in big trouble (crosspost)

    You are probably not going to get the advice you are looking for here. Do what you think is right choose a path and dont look back.
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    What is it with divorce & old/new testament

    Jesus was responding to the condesending questions from the pharisies, Jesus said he did not come to disolve the old testimate or make new rules just to emphsisze the rules that already existed (alot people in the church I used to go to before I started my divorce I dont even think read the old...
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    Is this overly cynical?

    in red
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    Obama's compulsory military service idea.

    Also as far as compulsory military service itself they would have to guarentee that professionals did not get drafted into things like army field positions unless they volunteered for that exact position, otherwise you would have a repeat of the vietnam draft era. Everybody has there place in...