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Has anyone ever taken deseryl/trazadone??? Is that a good med for anxiety??? I start taking it on thurs, my dr wouldnt give me anything that is a controlled substance like benzo or xanax. Has anyone had a med that really helped with anxiety?

thanks for your message, it is so easy to feel like I am the only one who feels this way. Looking at others from the outside everyone seems to be so normal and not have these thoughts, but you just never know what is going on in someone elses head, they can be feeling the same way. I go...

it is a fear of being social and I think of being judged, I feel a pressure of having to be perfect, my parents were very critical. I feel under a microscope, like everyone is watching me.

no one has replied yet, I was hoping to get some help before I had to leave to work :help: :help: :help: I leave in one hour.

i just started a new job yesterday. In the past I would get a job and not stay long cause I would feel so much anxiety about going, being there and the social anxioty of it. It makes me feel like I am trapped and I feel like running. please give me some coping skills, I really want a job, but...

So true, you cant be the only one trying. I get tired, my husband says he is a Christian but the only time he focuses on God is to manipulate me to do what he wants me to do. Like getting me to come back to him, he played the I found God and I fell for it, I was decieved and manipulated. He is...

I know what you meant :) what I am saying though is the scripture can be used as a loop hole to some, cause it also says to look upon a woman in lust is adultery........so since it is worded exactly that way in scripture, it really cant be argued that one is getting a divorce due to adultery...

but the Bible clearly says that adultry is grounds for divorce, it doesnt say infidelity. And it also says to look at a woman with lust is adultry, those are Gods words. I am not saying that to look at a woman with lust is grounds for divorce, i am just saying, it can be read differently and...

I have been thinking alot about how Christians feel about divorce. I have read posts that say to even stay if there is emotional abuse, that that isnt grounds for divorce. I feel confused, and feel that if can all be interpreted the way we want it to, meaning, everyone can see the same...

Your wife is a very Blessed woman. I see your profile says your 29 but you seem so spirit led and sound like a very mature Christian. I am sure God is smiling down on you as to you being able to die to yourself and really let him shine through. I am definately not there yet. I do get...

From what you describe, your husband is also insecure. So he manipulates to keep you isolated. When you are talking to others and reaching out, it makes him feel threatened. My husband does the same thing. I no longer let his anger manipulate me and intimidate me. My husband also makes me...

i agree with a post a few pages back. i dont think the real issue is cheating. I would say that your happiness is what is the issue. You can find happiness within yourself, for yourself. You can get so caught up in your husband, if he is cheating etc that you lose yourself, who you are. And...

yes this definately applies!! I have been told this by counselors when he was in treatment for a short time as well as from our Pastor. He is very immature for his age due to being on the drugs. It is tough cause as it is I am 8 years older than him, I feel like I have another child more than a...

That is a good question, I know I wouldnt have come back if I had to say no, we arent safe. I felt safe coming back because he appeared to be transformed, spirit filled, full of God. I believe the he was doing the right things for selfish motives. He wasnt getting close to God for himself, but...

he has passed 2 drug tests and is in the process of applying for jobs and has to take a drug test for the job so I am sure he isnt using right now. When using he refuses to take them. I will respond more later, when I have some privacy. Thank you so much for your post.

I am soo miserable, I need some prayers. My husband is home from work today. It you look at my thread how to deal with a needy spouse you will see what I have been going through. He has been home since friday, I am sooo unhappy, he watches my every move and if I am doing anything that is just...

Thank you so much for your perspective on this. You acknowledge that you do this, this means that it can change for you and be a victory! wouldnt it be great to lift yourself up, reach to God instead of trying to get it from another person, what peace we will all have when we look to God for...

Marv You seem wise about addiction. I have said many times that he is alot the same only not taking drugs. All the issues are still there and not dealt with. His sobriety is like a time bomb to me and he cant see that he is just one second away from using. He is a meth addict. He has been...

absolutely! I feel like he replaced his drugs with me. I feel like I am his drug he is trying to use to fill the hole inside of him. I cant really reply to your comment with the time i want to right now, as hubby is home and if he saw me talking about this as insecure as he is it would be a...

Thank you for responding :) I would love for him to go to the mens groups, I wish he wanted to. I will be praying for that! He doesnt like accountability. I am going to start going to a womens group, it is for being in diffucult relationships and how to deal with it. I told my husband I...