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  1. frank1234

    Anyone else struggle with being lonely but also wanting to be single?

    I fell exactly word for word, but there is a block(which I am aware of). It's my health. I don't feel well enough to even start a relationship. So, what is your block? Is it health, money, ..... There must be a reason part of you does not want the commitment. Find that and work on it. God bless.
  2. frank1234

    Horrible scrupulosity

    I did(for one day) few days ago started doing that on one of my triggers. It was very uncomfortable, and honestly i didn't know how long i could prolong it, until the time for that trigger was over(about 15 minutes), otherwise i don't know how long i could have sustained it. At least i tried...
  3. frank1234

    OCD about physical affection

    Sounds like you were very conscientious about doing the right thing from the very young age, which is very good and admirable. But it takes time to bring the whole thing into balance, which comes with experience(and maybe a little help with medicinal remedies). Also you have to be careful to...
  4. frank1234

    Horrible scrupulosity

    Honestly, so far i am stuck, but when i say those compulsive prayers, i repent of them(ritualisticlly)(knowing that they werent prayers of faith to begin with). (I am aware that even my repentance is not by faith, because God is not going to respond to them anyway.) But i say it anyway because...
  5. frank1234

    Can you go to a psychologist as a christian?

    Luke in the bible was a doctor. Illnesses are not just specific to the body(because we need doctors when we get sick), but illnesses can also be of the mind, so why do we scare people not to go to psychologists? It's true that not every psychologist is Christian(or Godly)(and we have to be...
  6. frank1234

    Horrible scrupulosity

    I suffer from the same issues. But you have to understand that this is typical "trying to stop your compulsions with fear" tactic. I do the same things. It starts with. "if...", and goes on from there. You are trying to stop your compulsions. The problem is that this does not stop the...
  7. frank1234

    Anxiety about being alone...

    I will pray for you. God knows your situation. We pray that God would send people your way so that you won't feel alone. Try to get involved with people and places that have similar interest as you. People are around. God bless.
  8. frank1234

    Ocd wants me to doubt the Bible

    You can have joy when you trust God in your struggles, and you can overcome unbelief by trusting God and His word, but that scripture does not mean or say that you can not have joy if you have issues with unbelief. Joy is not contingent in belief(because that's not what this scripture says)...
  9. frank1234

    Are alot of christian men singles becuse many christian women prefer non christian husband?

    Are alot of christian men singles becuse many christian women prefer non christian husband? I hope not! If you are really Christian, then there is no other option but a Christian believer as a husband. It will be unequally yoked!!
  10. frank1234

    Aloneness

    I understand that. We, humans, are designed to socialize and interact, but unfortunately things are not always ideal in this life, even for the believer. We should realize that God is completely aware of our situations and He has a plan and purpose for each one of us. He says that He uses our...
  11. frank1234

    Honesty in a Relationship

    The number one point of attraction in my list is honesty. Go figure.
  12. frank1234

    I Feel Hopeless

    It's a tremendous feeling of freedom and relief when some one understands you and listens to you and is able to guide you. I have been struggling with this generalized anxiety disorder and OCD, and The Lord showed me Alternative medicine, and a lot of working on myself. Help is out there. I will...
  13. frank1234

    I Feel Hopeless

    Hi. Have you ever tried looking into your health holistically. Through holistic methods they can find the root cause/s of your health issues. Regular chemical medicines are only designed to deal with the symptom(anxiety and depression are mostly symptoms). Natural medicine can also help...
  14. frank1234

    Conspiracy and anxiety

    You have to start by not watching that stuff. They affect your mind. Just know that they are not presenting things that are true and factual, so by watching that stuff, you are forcing your mind to be occupied by them. Substitute them by watching other wholesome and good things. Watch things...
  15. frank1234

    Nightmares

    Believe it or not when we don't feel well physically(specially our nerves), that affects our sleep and dreams. Remind yourself that your dreams are just a byproduct of your health affecting your mind.
  16. frank1234

    Anxiety and Death

    The sure and correct way to deal with this subject is , first make sure you are saved, second study the bible(specially the scriptures about assurance of salvation). Bible assures us that when we are saved we will go to heaven to be with Jesus. There is no fear in love.
  17. frank1234

    Yelling

    Have you told them about it, that it bothers you?
  18. frank1234

    Constant talking and anxiety

    Maybe it's not just the feeling you have, but the truth, which means people around you aren't listening to you enough!! I hope you will find some people who will listen to you more.
  19. frank1234

    Can't get past this feeling.

    If you have unforgivness towards any body, just forgive them and move on. By the way, if they have hurt you, forgiving them doesn't mean that you let them do it again. But for your talents, you can look into your heart and see what are the things you are interested in, and then try to work on...