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    If the Earth looked less than 10,000 years old

    And according to this recent article, the Milky Way Galaxy is 66,000 light years across The Far Side Of Our Galaxy Has Been 'Seen' For The First Time
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    Love vs In Love?

    My wife wrote off our marriage because i was tongue tied when asked that question. She decided that the years of devotion, shared experiences good & bad, and thousands of intimate nights were a charade since i didn't gush like i was in some Hollywood movie.
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    9 years in... My marriage is like a 2nd job

    Sounds like a classical case of clinical depression. It would explain her lack of interest in life and in you. Is this a possibility?
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    20 years of rejection in marriage I cannot commit to this life sentence any more

    I recommend you pray for a clear perspective. Such strong feelings can result in confusion and the inability to see things as they really are. A small lack of attention can appear to be huge rejection. I'm not saying this is true in your case. But it isn't uncommon. This then leads to...
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    I Want To Forgive and Forget

    Thats the key. If he is earnestly trying to be the best husband he can be, then you should respect that and work with him. As always, communication is vital. If there are still things that he does, or neglects to do, try discussing them with him respectfully.
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    Struggling 11 years in

    There are many marriages where the "rose colored glasses" come off at some point. You must be careful that you havent simply swapped rose colored glasses for rubbish colored glasses. Are you sure you are actually seeing your husband, good and bad, for who he is? If so, at that point you have the...
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    Yes dear. Happy wife, happy life and other terms...

    Regardless of whether its the man or woman, the issue comes down to how conflict is handled. Upsetting each other is only natural and is bound to happen from time to time. However, a person who gets angry about an action their partner has taken, but is conscious to reaffirm their love and...
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    My wife feels rejected

    Here we are 3 years later. I wish i could say that horrible period was just a distant memory. But its still going today. My wife and i are cordial and polite to each other but thats about it. Over the years, my every loving word or romantic gesture has been treated with suspicion as if i'm...
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    I am scared He will change me

    Most Christians are more afraid that God WONT change them. If God works in your life in an obvious way, its a huge boost to your faith. Just don't make the mistake of trying to force yourself to change (beyond repentance and abstaining from obvious sin). That leads to resentment and frustration.
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    Prophetic source shows that i will never get to be with the one that i love.

    OP I suspect you suffer from a mental illness. Please seek professional help.
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    Two kinds of belief

    The feelings i get when buying a lottery ticket remind me of the two kinds of faith believers commonly experience. Firstly there's the hopeful expectation you have when you buy a ticket. You earnestly hope that the ticket you have will be a winner. The second feeling is the excitement and joy...
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    Updating The Theory of the Earth

    Carbon dating is but one method and one only suitable for recent dates (up to 50k years). There are many other dating methods that can be explored and corroborate each other. The Earth has the appearance of great age. This is undeniable. Whether it is actually billions of years old or is young...
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    Methane bomb risks destroying civilisation by 2040

    All that methane sounds like a good solution to the energy crisis. Time to drill for it.
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    Who'd You Choose: Girl Who Messed Up Sexually but Repented..or the One ALWAYS Clean?

    It really is as simple as that. You pick the one you want to spend your life with.
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    Sex and Intimacy: A Serious Question

    Stay away from inappropriate content. It pollutes your mind and sets unreasonable expectations of a partner.
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    killing me slowly

    Agreed. 4 bouts of cheating in a mere 4 years is intolerable. Respect yourself and for your children's sake leave him.
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    How important is physical attraction in a successful marriage?

    If attractiveness is important to you, then you must treat it as a factor accordingly when considering a date. Not to do so would be lying to yourself and setting yourself up for failure. That said, try and understand yourself better by understanding what makes you "picky". If you can work...
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    Did God create the universe in an instant of time, or with the appearance of time, remember...?

    This recent article about a chain of volcanos created as the tectonic plate passes over a hot spot is evidence for an old Earth. God creating a chain of volcanos with this appearance would be strange. He well might have, but the purpose would be unclear.
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    More Litter On The Road Of Science

    Oh man now i'm hungry! Thanks! :yum:
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    Do we actually know that we will die?

    Thats very strange logic. Every human known to science over the past 400 years has died at some point. 100%. History says every human who ever lived died. Therefore its reasonable to extrapolate that out to "all humans die". For Christians, even Jesus died (he came back 3 days later!).