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  1. apologia25

    Needing an Accountability Partner

    I'd be willing to help you. PM me
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    sexually bonded together

    I think in terms of bonding I think you're referring to the idea that when you sleep with someone it imprints on your mind. Every time after that your merely replicating what you've already done. I think it is the actual act of sex where something called Oxytocin is released and helps you to...
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    Overcoming temptation

    Hey bro, i guess it all starts with the desire to change, which I believe you have. Secondly its about prayer, taking the time to pray daily being real with God, expressing to him your hurts and struggles and asking for his help. Thirdly it is placing barriers in your life that will keep...
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    Please, please help! Trying to live a christian life but dealing with homosexuality

    Hey man, First of all I want to say how awesome it is that you have come out of that lifestyle. Secondly I want to encourage you to spend time in Gods Word. Develop friendships in the church to find someone who can be you accountability partner. I'm amazed how God has brought to me people...
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    really struggling here

    Hey Brother, You have come to the right place. I would encourage your first step is to go to Freedom from habitual sin: Overeating, inappropriate contentography, Smoking, Drinking and enter yourself in the door of hope course. It is a 90 day discipleship course designed to lead you from homosexual sin...
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    really struggling here

    Hey Brother, You have come to the right place. I would encourage your first step is to go to Freedom from habitual sin: Overeating, inappropriate contentography, Smoking, Drinking and enter yourself in the door of hope course. It is a 90 day discipleship course designed to lead you from homosexual sin...
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    I'm a guy, and I like women's shoes

    Hey, I wouldn't say your bad because of your love for shoes. I would say however that there are specified gender roles set forth in the Bible. And for most people this is a stretch. You have to realize your identity is much more than your love for shoes. If you keep thinking that people...
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    Losing Control

    You're welcome. If you need anything else just private message me
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    Addicted to inappropriate contentography

    Hey guys here are a few suggestions Hem yourself in: the first thing you need to do is make a safety net. You are the enemy. So you have to fight. Search for K9 Internet Filter and download it. Set it up. Remember you're the enemy. Think of all the ways you might try to bypass it and...
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    Losing Control

    Hey bro, that's a hard situation to deal with. Revealing your struggles with others also is all about timing and who to share with. You're right to be anxious to share especially in such a small group. I think your way of taking on the problem is where the problem lies. When you find...
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    Freedom from Homosexuality?!

    Hey just wanted to let you know that you can get out of this. There is hope! I would be willing to be your accountability. PM me
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    Freedom from Homosexuality?!

    Hey, It's awesome you've come here to get help. Your struggle Is a common struggle. Many times what we see as impossible it's just matter of perspective. An addiction in itself blinds you to see a way out. We find ourselves in a cycle of sin and repentance. So my advice for you is find a...
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    I am a testimony?! O_o

    I just wrote you a huge note but it failed to send. Here is an answer to your questions. Masturbation even without improper thoughts is sin. To say you don't need sex with men or women but you continue to touch is contrary. If you say no to one thing you should be consistent with...
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    I am a testimony?! O_o

    Hey it seems like you've really thought this through. Here is an answer to your question. You asked about masturbation to specific thoughts. But here is the thing you do have a desire for sex, just not with people. If you really don't need sex then you shouldn't need to touch either...
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    Forgiveness?

    If you're a believer in Christ, there is always forgiveness of sins. When you received Christ if indeed you did then all your sins were forgiven. Past present and future. Do if you asked Forgiveness for that sin(recognizing you Did wrong)? And did you repent of it(turn from the sin to God?
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    accountability partner.......

    Hey if you need someone, I can help you. You're not alone
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    Masturbation and gay inappropriate content thoughts?

    Hey, it awesome that you've made it this far. As an encouragement leaving behind this sin is a lot like other addictions. As you go longer you your body adjusts. Another tip Is realizing that you don't have to give in. You've trained your body to expect certain things. The enemy uses this...
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    Help...

    It means you can send me a private message anytime. You know for accountability
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    help with sexual frustration release.

    Hey, Some say that physical exertion helps. So when you feel the urge coming on if you can go for a run, go to the gym. Work out until you're exhausted. Other than that bro the best answer is prayer. When we sin physically with ourselves we train our bodies to make more sperm and thus...
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    Adolescent

    many people struggle. What you need to realize is in your sin God's love for you isnt changed. You are his and he knew you would struggle with this thing. In the Gospels we have two big examples of falling. There was the fall of Judas and the fall of Peter. both of them fell but in the...