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    An "indecent proposal"???

    Hey all... so freaked out right now! Just want your opinions on that... be forewarned that I am entirely aware that I often totally overanalyze things. Anyway, my boyfriend and I got into a fight yesterday... actually, the truth is I kind of "started" it because he had "forgotten" to tell me...
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    Does anyone else feel this way??????

    So... BF and I have been dating for almost two years... two years Thanksgiving, to be exact... First two to three months was casual, but by the time my birthday came around four months later he went on a long-distance trip with me to meet all of my "best" friends that he didn't know, and since...
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    Marriage and money?

    Hey all... just wondering what your personal experiences are with this. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years now, and I anticipate that he will ask me to marry him relatively soon (my "guess" would be that in six months to a year we'll be engaged). My question is this - how...
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    Does he just not care about me?

    Hi all. Let me preface this by saying that I have had a horrible few weeks and I'm not really in the state of mind to be making any decisions anyway. I have been dating SO for almost two years now. He's funny, he's cute, he's smart... but he's not very attentive. And I don't need a lot of...
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    Weird dreams about SO?

    Hey all... Just wondering - have any of you ever had a superweird dream about your SO, and then felt uncomfortable about it for awhile? For some reason, this past week all of my dreams have been about my SO. Most of them were good dreams... he's been being particularly nice lately, after...
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    A "Stage" or a New Attitude?

    Hey everyone... Well, I've kind of said a bit about this before... it's just something that has me really confused and I wanted to see what everyone's take was on it. I have a lot of friends (myself sometimes included) who are dating guys or a few who are even married to guys who just don't...
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    Late on Valentine's... what to do?

    Okay, well, I've been seeing my BF for over a year now, and we get along great... except for the fact that he is always late. Consistently. We've gotten into big fights over it numerous times... he says he just "loses track"... which is so ridiculous, in my opinion. But other than that, we...
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    Wedding etiquette Q - when do you get to LEAVE?

    Hey ladies (and gentlemen, if present), thought you all might know the answer to this one. My boss' daughter, whom I have met one time, is getting married next month. I am planning on dragging my DBF with me to the wedding and there will be a few coworkers there as well, but I don't know how...
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    Engagement timeline

    I am curious. Four questions: 1) How long did you know each other before you started dating? 2) How long did you date before you got engaged? 3) How old were you when you got engaged? And your fiance? 4) How long do you plan on being engaged before you marry?
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    Okay ladies and gentlemen... engagement advice!

    Okay, I just read this article and it has some insane advice in it! So I want to know, from those of you who are engaged, what is your number one piece of advice on "how to get engaged"? Kinda silly, but I'm so intrigued now!
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    Dorky "ex" won't leave us alone!

    Okay, here's my problem. A few years ago, when I was visiting home for the holidays, this dorky guy who happens to be in the armed forces showed up at my parents' home. I don't really know the guy... our siblings were in some activities together, but that's about it. He's attractive enough...
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    Do you think it's strange...

    That we aren't engaged? My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year, and I didn't think that I would be ready for marriage any time soon... but now I'm wondering if we're just playing around. He's 24 and I'm 23. I know we are young, and I get on to the very young around here all the...
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    Can't stop thinking about it...

    Okay, well... don't really know what has happened to me. I don't want children right now and I don't even know that the relationship I have right now will come to marriage. But for some reason, I have been having this very strong feeling that for me, the plan is to someday adopt. It is so...
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    Christian Forums love story!

    Okay guys, I like the one-word story below, but I think our story might make more sense if we had a little more control over where it's going. So here's my idea... this story has to be about the greatest thing of all, love! :) You get to add one line each time, and someone must go in...
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    Second Thoughts

    Last night I was with my boyfriend's family, and his cousin I'd never met before was there. She has three children, ages 4, 2, and 1, and is pregnant again! The weather was supposed to get bad, and my boyfriend's dad took my car to their barn. It never did, but it ended up that I stayed at...
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    S-e-x

    I've been thinking about this for awhile. I've come across several people here in these forums who believe that sex without the possibility of conception (i.e., in context of using contraception) is wrong. That God thinks it's wrong. My question is, if that's so, then is it wrong for...
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    When did you find "The One"?

    Just wanted to know when everyone found "The One" for them... doesn't have to be your hubby or wife if you know he or she is the One for you... came up from an 18 year-old speaking about her breakup... I just know there's so much time for her, but I know how it feels too!
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    Pregnant friend who's not a teen

    Okay... I'm not sure I have a pregnant friend, but I think it's a possibility. This girl is a Christian, at least she goes to church and tries her best and I believe does accept Jesus as her savior, etc., just has fallen like all of us have before. She's a good friend and a great sister...
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    Dog won't stay in

    I have a Yorkie who I love to pieces... however, every time he can, he bolts for the door and gets out. It scares me a lot because he's so small and could easily get run over. He's three now... I know I should've dealt with this before, but we lived in an apartment upstairs and he never did it...
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    Jobs

    Okay, I want to know if anyone else ever gets as frustrated as me sometimes!