NothingIsImpossible
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Well you can look like a supermodel and be ugly on the inside. Or you can be ugly on the outside and be beautiful inside. I should note I don't even use the word ugly really because there is no such thing as ugly when it comes to look. Only opinions. And honestly the only opinion that matters is Gods. He thinks we are ALL beautiful. So as far as how important is physical attraction....well... its complex. I mean alot of people do have things they "prefer". Like some guys like women with curves for example. So that may something that is physically attractive to them. And while it may do something for you, in the end looks fade away with age. Aging is unavoidable.
Sadly many go into finding a marriage partner with beyond crazy long lists of what they want. I mean some things like "Be a christian" is something you need of course. But when I was at that Match website some christian women had a list a mile long. I had to be within a certain height, certain weight, certain degree of health, eat certain foods, have certain color eyes, have a degree....etc. These things are silly. Again theres nothing wrong with preference but we need to rely less on lists and rely on God. Because he may send you someone that was WAY different then what you were always dreaming of. And you will fall in love with that person because you will realize (hopefully) God knows what He is doing when we try to find a soulmate. Once I stopped being picky about who exactly I wanted God brought my wife into my life. I am beyond happy with her. Doesn't matter her weight, height, race, age...whatever.
Sadly I seen to many who beyond all odds find the perfect men or woman who matches their list. Then years down the road they divorce for many reasons. Including the person they married changed. One example was this one woman I talked to briefly said I wasn't what she was looking for physically. She found her tall man with blond hair, blue eyes, 6 pack abs...etc. Within 3 years he gained weight and she stopped loving him because her dreams were shattered. Love for her was based on fairy tales, not reality.
Sadly many go into finding a marriage partner with beyond crazy long lists of what they want. I mean some things like "Be a christian" is something you need of course. But when I was at that Match website some christian women had a list a mile long. I had to be within a certain height, certain weight, certain degree of health, eat certain foods, have certain color eyes, have a degree....etc. These things are silly. Again theres nothing wrong with preference but we need to rely less on lists and rely on God. Because he may send you someone that was WAY different then what you were always dreaming of. And you will fall in love with that person because you will realize (hopefully) God knows what He is doing when we try to find a soulmate. Once I stopped being picky about who exactly I wanted God brought my wife into my life. I am beyond happy with her. Doesn't matter her weight, height, race, age...whatever.
Sadly I seen to many who beyond all odds find the perfect men or woman who matches their list. Then years down the road they divorce for many reasons. Including the person they married changed. One example was this one woman I talked to briefly said I wasn't what she was looking for physically. She found her tall man with blond hair, blue eyes, 6 pack abs...etc. Within 3 years he gained weight and she stopped loving him because her dreams were shattered. Love for her was based on fairy tales, not reality.
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