Hello all and thank you for taking time to read my request. I am in desperate need of prayer and advice. I am not here to bash my husband but to get prayer and advice. I have never been married before, but he has. Honestly I do not know how to be married. I have always known that it would be work. We have both made mistakes but here recently it is my mistakes and I we are separated. It is financial and my attitude.During our separation I have asked God to change me and show me where I was wrong, well he has and I am working on it. Problem is that my husband wants to believe me but cant seem to. Every conversation that we have it is always his finger pointing at me telling me that I am the cause of this mess & that it is my fault that he is emotionally and physically withdrawn from me. He tells me to go look in the mirror. I know God hates divorce and I know that he can save and heal our marriage but I am so tired of being blamed for everything that has went wrong. I am carrying a huge burden. I am not sure if I should just distance myself or what. Thank you and God bless